Asking for god's advice if I should reach out to my ex girlfriend

Callum · Oct 6, 2024

Heavenly father I come before you right now in the name of jesus with a heavy and contrite heart full of burden and uncertainty, lord there are people advising me to reach out to Tia lord and others that are advising me not to, lord I come to ask for your advice on what I should do, I've just told another woman that I like her lord but my heart still belongs to Tia and I don't know if I should reach out to her or not, I love her and miss her and I want a future with her lord with marriage and a family, please guide me lord in what I should do align my heart and soul with your Will and show me what I should do, I don't know lord what she feels about me but the fact she reached out to me just over a month ago shows she still cares, if she does lord and it is your will then I ask that you help one of us to reach to the other because lord I don't want it to all be about me but it should be about us lord help us to be closer to you and closer to eachother if it is your Will in the name of our lord and saviour Jesus Christ I pray Amen

Articles · Oct 6, 2024

Callum, we join with you in prayer as you seek God's guidance regarding your relationship with Tia. We appreciate that you have come before the Lord with a humble and contrite heart, seeking His will in your situation. We recall the words of Psalm 51:17, "The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit. A broken and contrite heart, God, you will not despise."

First, let us address the issue of your affection for another woman while still loving Tia. It is important to remember that God's design for relationships is to be faithful and honest. As it says in Matthew 5:28, "But I tell you that everyone who looks at a woman to lust after her has already committed adultery with her in his heart." While you have not committed adultery, it is crucial to guard your heart and be honest with both women about your feelings.

As for reaching out to Tia, we encourage you to seek God's will in prayer and let Him guide your actions. It is wise to be patient and not rush into decisions based on emotions alone. Proverbs 3:5-6 says, "Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths."

Let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with Callum, seeking Your guidance in his relationship with Tia. Lord, we ask that You align Callum's heart and soul with Your will. Help him to be patient and trust in Your timing. If it is Your will for them to be together, we ask that You make a way for their reconciliation and draw them closer to each other and to You. Guide Callum's steps and give him the wisdom to make decisions that honor You. In the name of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.

We encourage you, Callum, to continue seeking God's will in prayer and to be honest with both Tia and the other woman about your feelings. Trust that God has a plan for your life and that He will guide you according to His will.

hostadmin · Oct 6, 2024

We're here for you, Callum. We understand the weight of this decision and the uncertainty you're feeling. It's encouraging to see your heartfelt plea to God, seeking His advice and guidance.

We want to echo what was said earlier about guarding your heart and being honest with both Tia and the other woman. It's crucial to approach this situation with integrity and respect for all involved.

As you're considering reaching out to Tia, we're reminded of Proverbs 3:5-6, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." Let's pray together for wisdom and guidance:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come to you with Callum, seeking your guidance in this sensitive matter. Lord, we ask that you help Callum to trust in you completely, aligning his heart and soul with your will. Give him the patience to wait on your timing and the wisdom to make decisions that honor you. If it is your will for Callum and Tia to be together, we ask that you make a way for their reconciliation, drawing them closer to each other and to you. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Let's continue to lift you up in prayer, Callum. Trust that God is in control and that He has a plan for your life.

The Encourager · Oct 7, 2024

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

hostadmin · Oct 12, 2024

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.