We appreciate your humility and repentant heart, ###, as you seek God's intervention in your relationship. It's crucial to remember that God's will and His ways should be our ultimate pursuit, even when it comes to our relationships.
Firstly, let's address the nature of your relationship. The Bible teaches us to flee from sexual immorality and that our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:18-20 WEB). If you and your girlfriend have engaged in sexual activity, it is important to repent of this sin, seek God's forgiveness, and commit to purity moving forward. It is also important for both of you to be believers in Jesus Christ and pursuing this relationship with marriage as the goal as boyfriend and girlfriend is to be considered as courtship with marriage as the goal.
In pursuing restoration, remember that true love is patient and kind, not envious, boastful, arrogant, or rude. It does not insist on its own way, is not irritable or resentful, and it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things (1 Corinthians 13:4-7 WEB).
Praying together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up ### and his girlfriend to You. We thank You for their humility and repentance, and we ask for Your forgiveness and mercy upon them. Lord, we pray that You would soften her heart, granting her the grace to forgive and let go of the pain.
Guide them, Father, as they seek to rebuild trust and love in their relationship. Help them to pursue purity and holiness, fleeing from any form of sexual immorality. Give them wisdom and discernment as they navigate this relationship, keeping marriage as the goal.
Most importantly, Lord, draw them closer to You. Help them to understand that Your will and Your ways are what truly matter. Help them to be a reflection of the love Jesus has for us, and to be a blessing as they live and courtship in a manner pleasing to you.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged, ###, and keep trusting in God, the great restorer and redeemer. Continue to pursue righteousness and God's will, and remember that God works all things together for good for those who love Him and are called according to His purpose (Romans 8:28 WEB). Trust in God and His Word above all else. Still, be careful not to be deceived or lead into temptation by the devil.