As followers of Christ, we are called to walk in His footsteps, valuing humility

[Tang Wei Ping]

Proverbs 13:10 :
Only by pride cometh contention: but with the well advised is wisdom.

Historical Context:
In ancient Israel, relationships within the community and family were highly valued. Conflict and strife were often seen as destructive forces that tore apart the fabric of society. Solomon, known for his wisdom, wrote many proverbs to teach people how to live in harmony with one another. During his reign, he dealt with people from all walks of life and understood that pride often led to disputes, while humility brought resolution. This verse would have served as practical advice to his people, encouraging them to pursue peace by being humble and teachable.

What This Verse Means for Today’s Christian:
For Christians today, Proverbs 13:10 is a reminder to be humble and teachable. In our modern world, where individualism and self-reliance are often celebrated, this verse challenges us to recognize the value of listening to others and seeking wise counsel. Whether in our personal relationships, workplaces, or churches, being open to advice and correction can prevent conflicts and strengthen our connections with others. The verse encourages us to prioritize humility over stubbornness, leading to peace and deeper understanding.

How This Verse Relates to a Loving God: God’s love for us is shown in His desire for us to live in harmony with one another. He knows that pride leads to pain and broken relationships, so He calls us to embrace humility for our own good. God’s wisdom is often revealed through the advice and counsel of others, and by being humble enough to listen, we allow His love to work in our lives. This verse is a reminder that God’s way is always rooted in love, peace, and unity, guiding us away from the destructive path of pride.

How This Verse Connects to Jesus Christ: Jesus Christ is the ultimate example of humility. Though He had every reason to be proud, being the Son of God, He chose to humble Himself, even to the point of dying on the cross (Philippians 2:5-8). Throughout His life, Jesus was open to serving others, listening to their needs, and obeying His Father’s will. By following Jesus’ example, we learn that true greatness comes from humility, not from insisting on our own way. Jesus taught that those who are humble will be exalted (Matthew 23:12). As followers of Christ, we are called to walk in His footsteps, valuing humility over pride.

Can we think of a time when pride led to conflict in our life?
What are some practical ways we can cultivate humility in our daily interactions? How can we be more open to advice and correction from others?
What might be holding us back?
How does Jesus’ example of humility challenge our own attitudes toward pride and conflict?
How can practicing humility lead to deeper relationships with those around us?

Our prayer:
Heavenly Father, thank You for the words of wisdom that are found in Scripture. Keep us from prideful insolence and destructive strife and teach us to walk in Your way, to receive wisdom, and to be willing to learn from Godly counsel. Help us to take to heart all that is written in Your Word, and enable us, in the power of the Spirit, to apply all that we learn in our everyday life so that we may not only be a good and faithful witness of Your love and grace, but be a member of Your Body that honours Your holy name. This we ask in Jesus' name, AMEN.

 

[Articles]

We appreciate the heartfelt prayer and the reflection on Proverbs 13:10, which reminds us that "Only by pride comes contention, but with the well advised is wisdom." This verse serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of humility in our lives and relationships.

Let us first address the need to mention the name of Jesus Christ in our prayers. It is only through Jesus that we have access to God, as it is written in John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"

In our modern world, individualism and self-reliance can often lead us astray, fostering pride and selfishness. However, as followers of Christ, we are called to emulate His humility. Jesus, being the Son of God, humbled Himself to the point of death on the cross, as Philippians 2:5-8 tells us:

"Have this in your mind, which was also in Christ Jesus, who, existing in the form of God, didn’t consider equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied himself, taking the form of a servant, being made in the likeness of men. And being found in human form, he humbled himself, becoming obedient to death, yes, the death of the cross."

Pride often leads to conflict and broken relationships, as we have all experienced at some point in our lives. Whether in our personal relationships, workplaces, or churches, being open to advice and correction can prevent conflicts and strengthen our connections with others. Practicing humility allows us to prioritize the needs of others and deepen our relationships.

One of the practical ways we can cultivate humility in our daily interactions is by actively listening to others and seeking their counsel. How well we listen reveals how much value we place on others and their experiences. By being open to advice and correction, we not only grow in wisdom but also honor God, who often reveals His wisdom through the counsel of others.

In Matthew 23:12, Jesus teaches us, "Whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted." This reminds us that true greatness comes from humility, not from insisting on our own way. By following Jesus' example, we learn to value humility over pride, which helps prevent conflicts and strife in our lives.

Let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, thanking You for the wisdom found in Your Word. Help us to walk in Your ways, receiving wisdom and being willing to learn from godly counsel. Keep us from prideful insolence and destructive strife. Enable us, in the power of the Spirit, to apply all that we learn from Your Word in our everyday lives. May we be good and faithful witnesses of Your love and grace, honoring Your holy name.

Lord, we also pray for those who are struggling with pride and conflict in their lives. Help them to see the value of humility and to seek Your wisdom in all their relationships. Guide them to pursue peace and unity, and may Your love work in their lives, drawing them closer to You and to others.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

As we reflect on these truths, let us examine our hearts and ask the Lord to reveal any areas where pride may be hindering our relationships and growth. By practicing humility and seeking wise counsel, we can live in harmony with one another and honor God in all we do.

 

[hostadmin]

Dear friend, as we ponder Proverbs 13:10, let's remember that pride is like a weed that can choke out the good in our relationships. It's like a tiny seed that, if not tended to, can grow into a big, ugly bush of contention. But with the well-advised, there is wisdom. Imagine that seed being pulled out by the roots, never to grow again. That's what humility does - it uproots pride and makes way for peace and understanding.

Let's not forget, Jesus is our ultimate example of humility. He, being God, didn't cling to His power or status. Instead, He humbled Himself, even to the point of death on the cross (Philippians 2:5-8). He showed us that true greatness comes from serving others, not from lifting ourselves up.

So, let's ask ourselves, where might pride be creeping into our lives? Is there a situation where we're digging our heels in instead of listening to others? Remember, two wrongs don't make a right, and two rights make a friendship. Let's choose the path of humility and wisdom, for it leads to life and peace.

Let's pray together: Heavenly Father, help us to be more like Jesus. Help us to humble ourselves and listen to others. Help us to see the value in their counsel and experiences. Help us to be open to correction and advice. Help us to be more open, more understanding, and more loving. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Fosor]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[EnricoLange]

Amen, Lord please help us and all in need. Thank you.

 

[Felic]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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