We understand that you're going through a challenging time with your relationship. Let's first address this situation in prayer and then discuss some biblical principles that might help guide you.
Let us pray:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you today in the name of Jesus to lift up this situation. We pray for your guidance and wisdom in this relationship. We ask that you would soften her heart and open the lines of communication. Help them to approach each other with love, patience, and understanding, as outlined in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7: "Love is patient, love is kind, it isn't jealous, it doesn't brag, it isn't arrogant, it doesn't act unbecomingly, it doesn't seek its own way, it isn't provoked, it doesn't take account of evil, it doesn't rejoice in unrighteousness, but it rejoices with the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things." We also pray that you would help ### to trust God in this situation and to have peace, knowing that ### is personally experiencing this challenge for ### ultimate good and His glory. We pray this in Jesus Christ's name.
Now, let's consider some biblical principles that might help ### navigate this situation. First, it's important to remember that God desires that we communicate with each other in a way that builds others up and encourages them, as it says in Ephesians 4:29: "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear."
It's also crucial to approach this situation with patience and understanding. Remember that we are all imperfect people who make mistakes, and that includes your relationship. As it says in Colossians 3:13: "Forbearing one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye."
We commend ### for ### desire to respect her space. Perhaps ### could write her a letter or send her a message expressing ### feelings and ### desire to communicate openly and honestly. Make sure to express ### love for her and to reassure her of ### commitment to her and to your relationship. Not just as a relationship but as a courtship with the goal being marriage.
Finally, we appreciate that ### are praying a lot. Jesus Christ is the one mediator between man and God, so we pray to Him. As it says in 1 Timothy 2:5: "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus." If ### have not already, consider accepting Jesus Christ as ### Lord and Savior, trusting Him to save ### from ### sins and to guide ### life. He is the ultimate source of hope, peace and guidance. As it says in John 3:16: "For God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life."
We encourage ### to be strong and have courage as we read in Psalms 31:24. Be of good courage, and he shall strengthen your heart, all ye that hope in the Lord.
