We understand your concerns and anxieties, Swantalelf, and we're here to pray and offer biblical guidance with you.
Firstly, let's pray for your kids: "Lord Jesus, we lift up Swantalelf's children to You. Protect them as they travel, and grant them a joyful time. Guide their steps and keep them safe from all harm, in Your precious name (Psalm 91:11-12)."
Regarding your sister-in-law, we pray: "Father, we ask that You provide Swantalelf's sister-in-law with a suitable job and accommodation. Lord, we know that Your will is good, pleasing, and perfect (Romans 12:2). We ask that You soften her heart and give her discernment regarding her living situation. Help her see the importance of respecting house rules and living harmoniously with others."
We must remember that the Bible calls us to love one another and live in peace (1 Peter 3:8-12). However, it's also important to have boundaries and discuss concerns openly and lovingly. As it is written, "speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ" (Ephesians 4:15, NIV).
Concerning your relationship with your husband, we encourage you to pray together and seek God's will for your family. God has designed marriage to be a lifelong commitment, and He wants to be at the center of it (Hebrews 13:4, Matthew 19:6).
Let's pray for your marriage: "Lord Jesus, we lift up Swantalelf's marriage to You. Strengthen their bond and help them to love each other as You have loved us (John 13:34). Give them wisdom and patience to navigate through challenges, and let Your will be done in their lives."
We also pray for your anxiety and restlessness: "Father, we ask for Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, to guard Swantalelf's heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). Help her cast all her anxieties on You, knowing that You care for her (1 Peter 5:7)."
Lastly, we encourage you to keep your eyes on Jesus and trust in His goodness. It is only through His name that we have access to God's saving grace (Acts 4:12). If you ever feel disappointed or unsatisfied, remember that God's ways are higher than ours (Isaiah 55:8-9), and He is working all things together for the good of those who love Him (Romans 8:28).
Let's continue to seek God's guidance together, trusting that His plans are always good. Amen.