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Where family of four my partner has always had anger issues. All he does now is yell and he doesn’t even realize he’s yelling. He thinks he’s speaking. That’s how much yelling he does all the time especially takes it out of my youngest daughter. I don’t know why, but I can’t take it anymore and financially, I can’t afford to leave is making everybody so miserable he isn’t hurt. He is in pain right now due to an injury he suffered, but he’s been miserable before that he’s just gotten an extremely worse that it’s unlivable. Please pray for our family and give us some strength and guidance. If I had the money I had offer him to pay to leave, but I don’t have it we’re struggling with money right now too, so that makes matters 10 times worse.
 
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We are truly saddened to hear about the situation you're facing in your home. It's important to address the anger and verbal abuse issues from a biblical perspective. Firstly, we want to remind you that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. If you have not already we would ask you to call upon Jesus Christ.

The Bible tells us to "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." (Ephesians 4:32 WEB) It is clear that the behavior you're describing is not in line with God's will for families. "But now you must put them all away: anger, wrath, malice, slander, and shameful speaking out of your mouth." (Colossians 3:8 WEB)

We must first pray for your spouse, that God would soften his heart and bring conviction upon him. Let's pray that he would seek help for his anger issues, perhaps through biblical counseling. You need to remember you are married and the goal is reconciliation, even though it is not happening now.

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You, lifting up this family in their time of need. We pray for the husband, that You would touch his heart and bring him to a place of repentance for his angry and abusive words. We know that in your name Jesus we have access to you, and we can pray for his healing, both physically and spiritually. We ask that You would help him to see the pain he is causing his family and lead him to seek help.

We also pray for the wife and children, especially the youngest daughter who has been greatly affected by this. We pray for their protection, strength, and comfort. We ask that You would guide them through this difficult time and provide for them financially. We will also pray for the wife for strength and forgiveness.

We ask for Your wisdom and guidance. Show them the path to reconciliation and healing. Help them to live in a way that honors You.

It is important to remember that for God all things are possible, even this. We will continue to pray for your family, for healing, reconciliation, and restoration.

Please, consider finding a local church or biblical counselor to support you through this time. It's important to have a community of believers around you to encourage and uplift you.

Lastly, we want to remind you of God's faithfulness. He is with all of us me in this trial, and He will never leave you or forsake you, even in the darkest of times. He loves you and He loves your husband. We need to keep trusting God, no matter what, even in this.
 
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We're really sorry to hear about the tough situation you're going through. We want to lift your family up in prayer. It's so hard when someone we love is hurting others, even if it's unintentional. We've been there too, you know, with a loved one who's struggling with anger and pain.

We believe in the power of prayer, and we know that God can touch even the hardest hearts. Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we come to you today, carrying the burden of this family. We ask for Your healing touch on the husband. Help him to see the pain he's causing, and guide him to seek help and change. We pray for the wife and children, especially the youngest daughter. Comfort them, Lord, and give them strength to endure. We ask for Your provision, Lord, as they're struggling financially. We trust that You will make a way where there seems to be no way.

We claim Your promise, Lord, that 'with God all things are possible' (Matthew 19:26). We believe that You can turn this situation around, that You can bring healing, reconciliation, and restoration to this family.

We also want to encourage you to reach out to a local church or a biblical counselor. Having a community of believers around you can make a big difference.

And remember, God is faithful. He is with you and your family, even in the darkest of times. He loves you all so much. Keep trusting in Him, no matter what. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
 
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Dear friend, I can understand what it's like to live with an angry parent, who yells. I grew up dealing with that. I pray you will be given the right things to say to your children to comfort their hearts. Make sure they realize that this is their dad's issue, and that your husband's behavior has nothing to do with anything they did wrong. May God bless you in this area especially.

It's absolutely unacceptable that he is taking this out on anyone--but especially offensive is him taking this out on your youngest child. Yes, pray for your spouse, but please have wisdom about being safe. May God protect you all from harm. I am praying for your family's physical and emotional safety. I pray God gives you the ability to protect your family from this situation. I do lift up your spouse in prayer, asking God to correct him, and give him a heart of flesh, and let him feel the weight of his sin, so that he will cry out to God for forgiveness and that he would reconcile with you all. I am praying for your heart and that of your children. I am deeply saddened for this situation, and I ask God to intervene and that His will be done. I also pray in agreement with the above prayers. In Jesus' name, amen.

God loves you, and I love you too, I am praying.
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

sermons

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