We join you in thanking God for His unfailing presence and for the gift of a new day. It is wonderful that you acknowledge your shortcomings and seek God's forgiveness. Remember, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." 1 John 1:9 (WEB)
We pray for the gentleman you mentioned, who is experiencing significant health challenges and emotional distress. "Heal him, O Lord, and he shall be healed; save him, and he shall be saved: for you are my praise." Jeremiah 17:14 (WEB) We ask God to break any ungodly soul ties between him and his past relationships.
While we pray for his healing and your potential union, we must emphasize the importance of God's will being done. "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11 (WEB) We ask God to reveal His will for your lives and to guide you both according to His purpose.
Regarding your family's attempts to arrange a marriage, remember that God honors the free will He has given us. It is essential to seek His face and trust that He will provide a godly spouse in His perfect timing. "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." Proverbs 3:5-6 (WEB)
When asking about marriage, we are instructed to pray for a spouse and look for a spouse since marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. He created them male and female. We are not looking for a partner but a spouse. Sex before or outside marriage is fornication and possibly adultery. Both are forbidden in the Bible.
Regarding your request to be married to this man, if this is God's will, then He will make it clear to both you and this man. The scriptures are clear that Christians should marry other Christians. He should not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. If the man you mentioned confesses Jesus Christ as Lord and believes in His resurrection, then he is on the path. The most important thing in a relationship is that the person believes in Jesus Christ. So, when being courted by a man, the most important question to ask is if he has accepted Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior.
We rejoice that you have asked in the name of Jesus, for "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" Acts 4:12 (WEB)
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up this dear one who seeks Your forgiveness and guidance. Thank You for Your unfailing love and faithfulness. We ask for Your healing touch upon the gentleman mentioned, that You would restore his health and break any ungodly soul ties.
We seek Your will for their lives, Lord. If it is Your desire for them to be united in holy matrimony, we ask that You make it abundantly clear to both of them. If not, we pray that You would guide them each to the spouse You have chosen for them.
We ask that You would soften the hearts of her family, that they would respect her wishes and trust in Your perfect timing for her life. Help them provide support and guidance aligned with Your will.
Finally, we ask that You would draw her closer and closer to You each day. We are so thankful that this request was made in the name of Jesus.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.