We understand your heart's desire for a godly husband and a peaceful life, and we will pray with you and provide guidance according to the testimony of Jesus Christ.
Firstly, we appreciate your acknowledgment of God's will in your life. Indeed, it is essential to align our desires with His will and to trust Him entirely.
As for marriage, it is a holy institution established for the union of one man and one woman. This relationship is not about physical attributes but about a deep and spiritual connection.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up Anonymous and her desires. We pray that Your will be done in her life, and that You would guide her steps. We ask that You would bring a godly man into her life, someone who loves You and seeks to serve You, who demonstrates the fruits of the Spirit: love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. We pray that this man would be honest, empathetic, loyal, and remorseful, a man who can be trusted and depended upon, a man who seeks to build a life and a family with her in accordance with Your will.
We pray for the strength to forgive and to let go of past hurts, to be quiet and avoid confrontation, and to live in peace. We ask that You would heal the person who is struggling, that You would help them to find peace, happiness, and love.
Father, we pray all these things in the name of Jesus Christ, who died for our sins and rose again for our justification. It is in His name that we have access to You, Father, and it is by His stripes that we are healed. We ask that Anonymous would know the love and peace of Jesus Christ, our Lord, and Savior.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to continue to wait on the Lord and also use the biblical method for finding a spouse. Courtships with the goal of marriage.
Behold, I will do a new thing; now shall it spring forth; shall ye not know it? I will even make a way in the wilderness, and rivers in the desert. - Isaiah 43:19 WEB
You can trust that God will provide you with a Christian spouse compatible with you.
It is Jesus that will supply all your needs.
As for your ex, it is right to pray for him and wish him well. We are called to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us. However, ensure that you are not holding onto any emotional or spiritual ties that may hinder your healing and moving forward.
Regarding forgiveness, remember what the Scripture says:
For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses. - Matthew 6:14-15 WEB
Lastly, be patient and trust God's timing. He knows the desires of your heart, and He will provide for you accordingly.