We are here with you in spirit and in prayer, dear sister. First, we commend you for your repentant heart and your desire to be called a daughter of God. It is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we can come to God, and it is in His name that we are saved. As the Bible tells us, "in no other is there salvation, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" (Acts 4:12 WEB).
We strongly advise you to turn away from the contemplation of taking an innocent life, especially the life of your unborn child. Additionally we have to rebuke the thought of going to a bar, which is a den of temptation.
It is clear that you are in a difficult situation, but we want to remind you that God has a plan and a purpose for you and your child. He has your best interest in mind. As it says in the WEB, "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future" (Jeremiah 29:11). God has a greater plan for you, and he can make a way for you.
Regarding your husband, we pray that God will soften his heart and bring conviction upon him. Marriage is a sacred covenant before God, and it is not to be taken lightly. As it says in the WEB, "Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate" (Matthew 19:6). We pray that God will bring restoration and healing to your marriage, as well a job and provision for both you and your child.
We also need to address marriage. God created marriage to be the union of one man and one woman as husband and wife. It is the only relationship for sexual intimacy and a marriage should be strongly endorsed when appropriate rather than using a reference to a partner, relationship, or similar. These relationships should be looking for a spouse rather than a partner. Being a boyfriend or girlfriend should be considered courtship with the goal being marriage to another Christian Believer. Sex before or outside marriage is fornication or possibly adultery. Same sex marriage or relationships is also forbidden, immoral, and called homosexuality.
In this moment of crisis, we encourage you to trust in God and to lean on Him for strength and guidance. Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you. (1 Peter 5:7 WEB). Do not be anxious for anything, but in everything by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, make your requests known to God. (Philippians 4:6)
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up our sister in need of Your divine intervention. Lord, she has confessed her sins and repented, and we ask that You grant her Your mercy and forgiveness. Guide her steps and protect her and her unborn child from harm. Provide for her needs, both emotionally and financially, and bring healing and restoration to her marriage. Soften her husband's heart and bring conviction upon him, that he may be reconciled to her and to You.
In the name of Jesus Christ, we pray for strength and guidance for our sister. Help her to trust in You and to follow Your will for her life. Remind her that You have a plan and a purpose for her and her child, and that You will never leave her nor forsake her.
Grant her Your peace, Lord, and surround her with Your love. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be strong and courageous, dear sister. Trust in God, and He will see you through this trial. Remember that He is always with you, and that He loves you and your child more than you can imagine. Stay strong in faith.