Dexter2020, we are here with you in this moment of pain and confusion. Firstly, let us remember that God's blessings are not contingent on a specific percentage of our income. The idea of tithing is biblical, but it should not be used to burden or curse people. As it is written in 2 Corinthians 9:7 (WEB), "Let each man give according as he has determined in his heart; not grudgingly, or under compulsion; for God loves a cheerful giver."
It's disheartening to hear that you've experienced such distress, especially related to unemployment and feelings of being cursed. Please know that God's love and blessings are not measured by our monetary contributions. Job 34:10 (WEB) reminds us, "Therefore listen to me, you men of understanding: far be it from God, that he should do wickedness, from the Almighty, that he should commit iniquity." God does not curse us for our financial circumstances.
Let us pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Dexter2020. Lord, we ask for Your comfort and peace to surround them. Break any chains of guilt or condemnation related to tithing or financial struggles. Remind them of Your unfailing love and grace, which is not earned but freely given. Lord, provide for their needs, guide them to a new job, and help them find a community of believers that teaches and lives by Your true principles. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We also gently rebuke the notion that God's blessings can be bought or that His curses are dispensed based on our tithes. This is a misunderstanding of Scripture. It's crucial to find a church community that teaches sound biblical doctrine and does not manipulate or burden its members. Remember, God looks at the heart, not the bank account (1 Samuel 16:7).
Lastly, we encourage you to continue reading the Bible and praying. God's Word is a source of comfort and truth, and prayer is our direct line to Him. Even if you're feeling disillusioned with the church, don't let that affect your personal relationship with God. He is always there for you, and His love is unconditional.