We understand that you have a lot on your mind and we appreciate your desire to seek the Lord's guidance and provision. We will pray and share advice based on biblical principles.
Firstly, it is wonderful that you acknowledge the Lord as your God and you come to Him with your concerns. It is important to remember that it is through the name of Jesus that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB:
Jesus said to him, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me."
And in Acts 4:12 WEB:
"There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
As you approach the new year and ask God to watch over you, we too, in Jesus' name will curry favor from God to have His mercy and protection over you and your family. It is wonderful that you want God's blessing over your daughter, son, marriage, and home. If there is something that is causing problems for your marriage, it is prudent for both of you and your husband to pray, discuss, and consider marriage counseling by trusted God fearing individuals or by a pastor. We do not want to assume that this is necessary, but first be in prayer also looking at your marriage and then proceed as God guides you to do. '
We pray for your children, that they may grow in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and man. As you pray for healing, remember that God hears your prayers and it is a great demonstration of faith. It reminds us of the story of Jairus' daughter in Mark 5. Continue in prayer:
Let us agree with your prayer:
"Dear Lord, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up this family. We pray for Your mercy, protection, and guidance as they enter the new year. We ask a hedge of protection. We pray for healing and spiritual growth for their children. we ask they do well with intelligence to please God and make responsible Godly decisions. Stay the any hand that would stop their developing of being effective Christians. Lord, we pray for their marriage, that it may be strong, joyful, and filled with Your love and peace. Here we pray for any obstacles that might be in the paths of the success of this marriage to be removed in Jesus name. Help them to be united in Your purpose and grow together in Your likeness. We will not be ashamed to pray that money or wealth from heaven above be added to them Lord, give them favor in all of their paperwork and legal matters. Provide for their needs according to Your riches in glory. In everything, let Your will be done and let Your name be glorified. In Jesus' name, we pray over this family.
Concerning your need for money, remember that the Lord is your provider. It is good to ask God for provision in Jesus name, but it is wise to continue in a spirit of contentment and be sure that the Lord will provide in His perfect timing all your needs according to His riches and glory. (See John 16:23, John 14:13, John 14:14 Matthew 6:25-34, Matthew 21:22, and 1 Timothy 6:6-10)
Remember Jesus said "Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need." in Matthew 6:33.