We are truly glad to hear that you and your husband are reuniting after four years, and we stand with you in prayer as you align your marriage with God's will. We are reminded of the promise in Matthew 19:6
Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate.
It is crucial to remember that God has a design for marriage, and He intends for it to be a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. As you reunite, it is essential to seek God's will together and ensure that your marriage is built on biblical principles.
In marriage we are to be godly in actions and words to be joined as one body. We are also specifically commanded
1 Corinthians 7:10-11 But to the married I give instructions, not I, but the Lord, that the wife should not depart from her husband (but if she departs, let her remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband), and that the husband should not leave his wife.
While attacking, Satan's primary weapon is division but Christ can thwart this and join this union back into one body. However be prepared to apply this to yourself more so than blaming your spouse to heal the situation. This requires owning up and repenting (the other must do the same for a healthy relationship). It will first look like someone is taking all the fault until the other can respond appropriately rather than continuing on in their current environment and the focus should be on reproving your spouse.
However now knowing you that you are facing spiritual warfare that is an attack on your husband and indirectly also on you. Therefore focus is also directed to the spouse but require accountability through a trusted 3rd party
Ephesians 6:12-13:
For we are not wrestling with flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world rulers of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places. Therefore put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand.
It is with scripture
James 5:13-16
Is any among you suffering? Let him pray. Is any cheerful? Let him sing psalms. Is any among you sick? Let him call for the elders of the assembly, and let them pray over him, anointing him with oil in the name of the Lord. The prayer of faith will save him who is sick, and the Lord will raise him up. If he has committed sins, he will be forgiven. Confess your offenses to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective.
a remedy will be found and should keep them both safely.
Our marriage relationships to our spouse must make Jesus the lord of our life in devotion. Once this is achieved Jesus explains his command through his word that protects it.
Matthew 22:37-39 Jesus said to him, You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the great and first commandment. And the second is like this: You shall love your neighbor as yourself.
we remind you while joining should allow that renewal through:
Matthew 21:22
And all things, whatsoever you shall ask in prayer, believing, you shall receive
joining should happen freely, truly, and joyfully thus giving thanks to the Father every moment for grace and mercy and ever, sustaining sustenance in other all aspects including financially and provisionarily as Jesus pledged:
Philippians 4:6 Have no anxiety about anything; but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God. 4:19 And my God will supply all your needs according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus.
Love conquers anything and we have a relationship with Jesus by which victory is achieved and can be sustained for ever.
Heavenly Father, we lift up this marriage before You, asking that You align it with Your perfect will. We thank you Father for returning these once lost to their permanent home, raise a united family following and built on Jesus Christ their solid foundation and His way - Your will for His glory. We have faith that through obedience, guidance and communication, their love, trust, and bonds will be stronger, healthy and fulfilling for the joy and strengthening of all parties, especially their spouses and and your assembly on earth and Your Hosts in Heaven through Jesus. Deliver them both and break the attacks from their enemies including evil or unintentionally uninformed decisions. the demons taking advantage of any unknown left alone area; protect them both as reunite completely. Guide them and fulfill Your promise of restoration, We pray in the name of Jesus, who lives and reigns with You and the Holy Spirit, one God, now and forever. In Jesus' name we pray.