Alcoholic husband another show last night

[Faelfaelor]

Hi my alcoholic husband again last night went into another of his rampages. My daughter 28 is currently living with us with her Fiancé and my five month old grandson. She told me last night that at this point she doesn’t understand why I just don’t divorce him. She is starting to have a lot of resentment against him, and of course, we do not want our grandson to be raised in an environment with an angry alcoholic. I pray every day that he would wake up and wanna get sober but sober seems so far away from him. It seems like he has no desire to get sober. He’s extremely narcissist and of course plays victim so it’s all of us around him not him with the problem I don’t know what to do anymore. I’m at my wits end

 

[Articles]

We are truly sorry to hear about the pain and turmoil you are experiencing with your husband's alcoholism and abusive behavior. It's important to address this situation with a balance of compassion, truth, and safety. Firstly, we want to remind you that God is faithful, and He cares about your suffering.

Let us pray for you:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who is struggling with her husband's alcoholism and abusive behavior. Lord, we ask for Your divine intervention in this situation. Please break the chains of addiction in her husband's life and bring him to a place of repentance and sobriety. Open his eyes to see the pain he is causing his family and give him the desire to seek help and change.

Lord, we also pray for our sister. Strengthen her faith and give her the wisdom to make decisions that prioritize her safety and the well-being of her daughter and grandson. Help her to discern Your will in this situation and to act in accordance with Your Word.

In the name of Jesus, we rebuke the spirits of addiction, abuse, and narcissism that are at work in this situation. We declare that no weapon formed against our sister and her family shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against them in judgment shall be condemned.

Lord, we ask that You surround this family with Your protection and guide them to the right resources and support they need. Heal their hearts from the pain and trauma they have experienced and restore their home to a place of peace and love.

We ask all this in the powerful name of Jesus Christ. Amen.

Now, let us address some biblical principles and advice for you.

Firstly, it is important to understand that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16 WEB), but He also hates violence and abuse (Psalm 11:5 WEB). In cases where there is unrepentant abuse and danger to you and your family, separation may be necessary for safety (1 Corinthians 7:15 WEB).

Secondly, your husband's behavior is not only harmful to himself but also to you and your family. His actions are a clear violation of the biblical principles of marriage, which include love, respect, and mutual submission (Ephesians 5:22-33 WEB). It is important for him to take responsibility for his actions and seek help for his addiction and abusive behavior.

Thirdly, it is commendable that you are praying for your husband's sobriety, but it is also important to set boundaries to protect yourself and your family from harm. Allowing his behavior to continue without consequences is not helpful for him or for you (Galatians 6:7 WEB).

Lastly, we want to encourage you to seek support from your local church, Christian counselors, or support groups for families of alcoholics. You do not have to go through this alone.

Remember that God is always with you, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5 WEB). Trust in Him to guide you through this difficult time and to bring healing and restoration to your family.

Regarding your daughter's resentment, it is important to have open and honest conversations with her about the situation. Explain to her that you are trusting God to work in your husband's life and that you are taking steps to ensure the safety and well-being of your family. Encourage her to also pray for her father and to trust God to bring healing and restoration to your family.

We are here for you, and we will continue to pray for you and your family. Stay strong in your faith and trust in God's unfailing love and goodness.

We noticed that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ or an abbreviation such as IJN (In Jesus Name), then we want to remind you that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Also, there is no other name by which we can be saved. (Acts 4:12 WEB)

If you have not already done so, we encourage you to put your faith in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. Believe that He died on the cross for your sins and rose from the dead to give you eternal life. When you trust in Him, you become a child of God and have access to His presence and power through prayer.

If you have any other questions or need further support, please do not hesitate to reach out to us. We are here to help and to pray for you.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, sister. We've been where you are, feeling helpless and at a loss. But remember, God is always in control, even when it feels like chaos. We've been praying for you, interceding for your husband's deliverance from addiction and for your daughter's heart to be softened and understanding.

We've been asking God to give you wisdom and courage to make the tough decisions that will protect your family. It's not easy, but remember, God is with you every step of the way. He's given us His Word, and in it, we find guidance and strength.

We've been praying for your husband, that God would open his eyes to see the pain he's causing, and give him the desire to seek help. We've also been praying for your daughter, that she would understand your position and trust God's plan for your family.

We've been praying for your grandson, that he would be shielded from the harmful environment and grow up knowing the love and protection of his family.

We're here for you, sister. Keep trusting God, and remember, He's got this. Let's keep praying together, in Jesus' name.

 

[needhelpsobad48]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

New Year's Prayer 2025

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[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you and your family up in prayer, dear sister. Thank you for giving us the privilege to intercede on your behalf. We are honored to stand in agreement with you in prayer, trusting that God is at work in your situation.

If God has begun to work in your husband's heart or if there has been any change, we would love for you to share a praise report with us all. Let us rejoice together in God's faithful answers to prayer. If your husband has not yet turned towards sobriety and the situation at home remains unchanged, please do not hesitate to post an update. We want to continue praying with you and for you, just as we have been doing. Even when it is difficult to see, God is working and His plan is in play.

We pray fervently for your husband's heart to be turned towards the Lord and for the chains of alcoholism to be broken in his life. We also pray for your daughter, that any resentment would be replaced with love, understanding, and forgiveness. Let us cover your grandson in prayer, asking that God would surround him with protection and grace. Guide your whole family in wisdom and discernment as you navigate this challenging time.

Lord Jesus, as a body of believers, we call upon You to touch this broken hearted family. Pour Your healing power into this family and let faith be their guide. May theirworries be replaced with peace and understanding of Your word. May they find the strength in You alone as they wait for Your ways and Your timing. Lord draw this wounded family to Yourself, and turn the husband's and grandfather's heart away from addiction and towards you. Let their lives and their marriage bare witness to Your Glory and your divine will be done. thumbprint this family Lord so there will be no mistaking the miraculous healing power of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. And it is in Jesus Name we pray.