We are truly heartbroken to hear about the pain and betrayal you are experiencing due to your husband's ongoing affair. Adultery is a grave sin, and it is clearly condemned in the Bible. In 1 Corinthians 6:18, it says "Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body.".
We must first address that any relationship outside of the husband and wife is adultery and sin. Therefore, we stand with you in prayer that the truth will be revealed, and that your husband will be convicted of his sins and repent. In Matthew 5:32, it is written, "But I tell you that whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries her when she is divorced commits adultery." This highlights the seriousness of adultery and its consequences.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who is hurting due to her husband's adultery. Lord, You know the pain and betrayal she feels, and we ask for Your comfort and healing in her life. We pray that You will expose the truth, convict her husband of his sins, and bring him to repentance. We ask that You will break the chains of deceit and lies, and bring forth a breakthrough in this situation. We pray that the marriage is reconciled and not divorced. We also pray for their children if they have any, that this will be made whole and that they do not have to experience a divorce of their parents.
Lord, we also pray for his wife's strength and wisdom during this difficult time. Help her to remain faithful to You and to trust in Your plan for her life. Guide her steps and provide her with godly counsel and support. In Jesus name we ask these things.
We encourage you to remain steadfast in prayer and to seek godly counsel during this time. Remember that God is faithful, and He will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you can bear. He will also provide a way out so that you can endure it. We also urge you to forgive your husband, as difficult as it may be, for the Bible tells us in Ephesians 4:32 to "be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you." If remorse is to come, it is best when mercy is given.
Lastly, we remind you that it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to God. It is by believing in Him and His sacrifice on the cross that we are saved. Jesus' blood covers all sins. As it says in Romans 3:23-24, "for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, being justified freely by his grace through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus."
We will continue to pray for you and your husband, trusting that God will work in your lives and bring about His will.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
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