Adultery, cancer, and loss of job

[Voreiss]

My wife has cheated, lied and uses me still. She chooses other guys, insults constantly and I can't stop loving her.

I'm broken. I have 3rd time fighting this illness. I'm weak. I'm tired. I can't go on. I need my marriage restored and finances secured. My health is going downhill. If those were better maybe I could heal. If not it doesn't matter does it. Only two things can be fixed at this point: marriage and finances. I don't think God cares though as it's constant bad. And I pray. I beg. I serve. I stand for my marriage and put her first. Send her money even when I'm starving. I put God, my wife, and my daughter above me.

I've been asking prayers for over a year for my marriage. It's worse and worse. God isn't with me or marriage. I can't anymore unless a drastic change in the next day or so. Then I'm ending it all Wednesday August 21. I'll have peace then. As God I know doesn't exist. 2 years is enough pain. If he loved me as I have shown love and devotion to him for 40 years. He has given me such bad in life but I never gave up on him. Now I have. As I don't think he ever believed or loved me.

It's too much. I need a break. I need a miracle. I won't say I deserve or am owed it but if it was my child I'd sacrifice all to help them if it ever got this low for them.

So I'm ending it soon.

 

[Articles]

Dear ###, we are deeply concerned about the burdens you are carrying and the struggles you are facing. We want to assure you that God does indeed care about your situation, and we are here to pray with you and offer guidance based on His Word.

First, let us address the issue of your marriage. The Bible teaches us that marriage is a sacred union between a man and a woman (Matthew 19:4-6). Adultery is a serious sin that God condemns (Exodus 20:14), and it is crucial to acknowledge that continuing in this situation without addressing the sin is not God's will for your marriage. We pray that your wife will repent and turn away from her sin, and that God will restore your marriage according to His divine plan.

Let us pray together:

"Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ. We lift up ### and his marriage to You. Lord, we ask that You intervene in this situation, that You convict his wife of her sin, and bring her to repentance. Restore their marriage, Lord, and help them to rebuild their relationship on a foundation of faith, love, and trust. Give ### the strength to forgive and to love his wife as Christ loves the church. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Regarding your health and financial struggles, we encourage you to trust in God's sovereignty and His ability to heal and provide. The Bible tells us that God is our healer (Exodus 15:26) and our provider (Philippians 4:19). We pray that God will grant you physical healing and strengthen your faith in Him. We also pray that God will open doors for you to secure a job and stabilize your finances.

Let us pray:

"Lord, we ask for Your healing touch upon ###. Restore his health, give him strength, and renew his spirit. We also pray for his financial situation. Open doors of opportunity for him, Lord, and provide for all his needs according to Your riches in glory. Help him to trust in You and to see Your hand at work in his life. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

We also want to address the despair and hopelessness you are feeling. The Bible tells us that God loves us with an everlasting love (Jeremiah 31:3), and that He has good plans for our lives (Jeremiah 29:11). Even in the darkest moments, God is with us, and He is working all things together for our good (Romans 8:28). Do not give up hope, for God is faithful, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6).

Lastly, we want to encourage you to continue praying and seeking God's face. The Bible tells us that we have access to God through Jesus Christ (Ephesians 2:18), and that we can come boldly before His throne of grace (Hebrews 4:16). Continue to pour out your heart to God, and trust that He hears your prayers and will answer according to His will.

Let us pray:

"Lord Jesus, we thank You for Your love and faithfulness. We ask that You would fill ### with Your peace and hope. Help him to trust in You and to know that You are with him always. Give him the strength to persevere and to see Your goodness in his life. In Your precious name, we pray. Amen."

Please do not give up hope, and do not be swayed by the thoughts of ending your life. God loves you and has a purpose for your life. Continue to seek Him, and trust that He will see you through this difficult time. We are praying for you and believe that God will work a miracle in your life. Stay strong in the Lord.

 

[hostadmin]

We've been thinking about you and your situation, and we want you to know that we're right here with you. We understand that it's been a long and difficult road, and it's easy to feel overwhelmed. But remember, God is right there with you, every step of the way.

We've been praying for you, asking God to intervene in your marriage, to convict your wife's heart, and to bring her to repentance. We're asking Him to restore your marriage, to help you rebuild your relationship on a foundation of faith, love, and trust. We're also praying for your health and finances, trusting that God is your healer and provider.

We want to encourage you to keep holding on, to keep fighting for your marriage. We know it's hard, but God is faithful, and He's working all things together for your good. Don't give up hope, because God loves you with an everlasting love, and He has good plans for your life.

We're here for you, and we're not going anywhere. Keep seeking God, keep praying, and trust that He hears you and will answer according to His will. You're not alone in this. We're in this together, and we're believing with you for a miracle. Stay strong, and keep your eyes fixed on Jesus. He's got this.

 

[PrayerAngel67]

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My wife has cheated, lied and uses me still. She chooses other guys, insults constantly and I can't stop loving her.

I'm broken. I have 3rd time fighting this illness. I'm weak. I'm tired. I can't go on. I need my marriage restored and finances secured. My health is going downhill. If those were better maybe I could heal. If not it doesn't matter does it. Only two things can be fixed at this point marriage and finances. I don't think God cares though as it's constant bad. And I pray. I beg. I serve. I stand for my marriage and put her first. Send her money even when I'm starving. I put God, my wife and my daughter above me.

I've been asking prayers for over a year for my marriage. It's worse and worse. God isn't with me or marriage. I can't anymore unless a drastic change in the next day or so. Then I'm ending it all Wednesday August 21. I'll have peace then. As God I know doesn't exist. 2 years is enough pain. If he loved me as I have shown love and devotion to him for 40 years. He has given me such bad in life but I never gave up on him. Now I have. As I don't think he ever believed or loved me.

It's too much. I need a break. I need a miracle. I won't say I deserve or am owed it but if it was my child I'd sacrifice all to help them if it ever got this low for them.

So I'm ending it soon.

I'm so

My wife has cheated, lied and uses me still. She chooses other guys, insults constantly and I can't stop loving her.

I'm broken. I have 3rd time fighting this illness. I'm weak. I'm tired. I can't go on. I need my marriage restored and finances secured. My health is going downhill. If those were better maybe I could heal. If not it doesn't matter does it. Only two things can be fixed at this point marriage and finances. I don't think God cares though as it's constant bad. And I pray. I beg. I serve. I stand for my marriage and put her first. Send her money even when I'm starving. I put God, my wife and my daughter above me.

I've been asking prayers for over a year for my marriage. It's worse and worse. God isn't with me or marriage. I can't anymore unless a drastic change in the next day or so. Then I'm ending it all Wednesday August 21. I'll have peace then. As God I know doesn't exist. 2 years is enough pain. If he loved me as I have shown love and devotion to him for 40 years. He has given me such bad in life but I never gave up on him. Now I have. As I don't think he ever believed or loved me.

It's too much. I need a break. I need a miracle. I won't say I deserve or am owed it but if it was my child I'd sacrifice all to help them if it ever got this low for them.

We've been thinking about you and your situation, and we want you to know that we're right here with you. We understand that it's been a long and difficult road, and it's easy to feel overwhelmed. But remember, God is right there with you, every step of the way.

We've been praying for you, asking God to intervene in your marriage, to convict your wife's heart, and to bring her to repentance. We're asking Him to restore your marriage, to help you rebuild your relationship on a foundation of faith, love, and trust. We're also praying for your health and finances, trusting that God is your healer and provider.

We want to encourage you to keep holding on, to keep fighting for your marriage. We know it's hard, but God is faithful, and He's working all things together for your good. Don't give up hope, because God loves you with an everlasting love, and He has good plans for your life.

We're here for you, and we're not going anywhere. Keep seeking God, keep praying, and trust that He hears you and will answer according to His will. You're not alone in this. We're in this together, and we're believing with you for a miracle. Stay strong, and keep your eyes fixed on Jesus. He's got this.

I'm so sorry you are going through so much. You sound like you have been a fantastic husband..putting her first and even forgiving adultery. You mentioned illness and finances being depleted..those may be interlinked it costs so much when illness hits .even with medical insurance. I'm so sorry. Satan is the author of infidelity .sin..sickness .etc. not God but the question remains why it feels He doesn't intervene? I've been praying a bad problem for several years and so far no intervention. But I know God cares..even if I don't know why I'm not getting resolution. A big part of it God gave free will and others abuse steal and scam. I guess if he stopped it it's taking away that person's free will. However I believe in God eventually compensating 7 times over of we don't give up and disconnect from God. God is our only hope. I plead the blood of Jesus over your situation and unfair trials you're going through. May God intervene and bring relief to you and I'm sorry you are suffering so much. You sound wonderful. In Jesus name I pray. Amen.
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[JesusourLordandSavior]

Praying with you and for you for this. May our Heavenly Father guide you and strengthen you. May He lift you up in His glorious light and give you peace of mind. Stay prayerful and strong in faith. Remember God has not abandoned you. He loves you and is always with you. In the name of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Amen

 

[Ojarnorb]

I’m very sorry about the pain in your marriage and the health challenges you’re facing, friend. My heart breaks for you, and I want you to know that I’m praying for you. Should you need a listening ear, Focus on the Family has free counselors that you can call at 1-800-A-FAMILY. A friend of mine found them very caring and understanding. I wish I could say for sure why the Lord has allowed this stressful situation to come into your life, but these are answers which lie hidden from our human understanding. However, I’m convinced that He won’t overlook or abandon you, and that He’ll carry you safely through this dark time. Even when it doesn’t feel like it, He is near to each of us, and I know He loves you more than you could ever imagine. Your life is precious no matter what issues you’re facing, friend. Try not to give up. Hang in there!

 

[hostadmin]

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