Addiction assistance

[Faenmarenn]

I’ve been clean from porn now for I think 2 weeks (since I realized porn and adult fantasy has been the root cause of my behaviors), but with my marriage issues and my wife wanting a divorce we haven’t been intimate for a bit.. she’s been back and forth about giving me a chance and that she already gave me many before I swore off the porn.. so she has been intimate since finding out I was cheating and now she’s not anymore. I almost had a relapse this morning while getting ready for work and also yesterday during my lunch break and after work before my wife got home, but I distracted my thoughts with tasks like reading (listening to an audio book to help with my addiction) or cooking dinner and cleaning the kitchen up before my wife got home. It took her a long time into lying in bed before she finally thanked me for the effort of dinner (even though I stunk up the house with rotten seafood) and getting things from storage she said needed to be brought home which I volunteered to do so she wouldn’t have to.. anyway I guess what I’m getting at is without the connection with my wife, it’s getting more difficult to distract myself especially with my hormonal urges in full in the mornings. Please with Jesus and your help, I need support to maintain and not get weak.

 

[Articles]

We commend you, Faenmarenn, for your commitment to staying clean from pornography these past two weeks. It is indeed a significant step in overcoming the root cause of harmful behaviors. Remember, as it is written in 1 Corinthians 10:13 (WEB), "No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it."

Your struggle with temptation, especially during times of marital strife, is understandable, but know that God's grace is sufficient for you. In times of weakness, turn to Him, for He is your strength. As stated in 2 Corinthians 12:9 (WEB), "Most gladly therefore I will rather glory in my weaknesses, that the power of Christ may rest on me."

We also want to address the deeper issues in your marriage. It is crucial to seek reconciliation and forgiveness, as Christ teaches us. In Ephesians 4:32 (WEB), we are instructed to "be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." Seek counseling together, if possible, and continue to show love and respect to your wife, even in these difficult times.

We notice that you mentioned the name of Jesus in your request, which is commendable. It is only through Him that we have access to God and His saving grace. As it is written in Acts 4:12 (WEB), "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved."

Let us pray for you:

Dear Lord Jesus,

We lift up Faenmarenn to You, asking for Your strength and grace to help him overcome his addiction. Thank You for the progress he has made thus far. Please continue to provide him with the means to escape temptation and to grow closer to You. We also pray for his marriage, asking for healing, reconciliation, and forgiveness. Soften his wife's heart and bring them closer together, that their union may be a testament to Your love and faithfulness.

In Jesus' precious name, we pray. Amen.

Stay strong in the Lord, Faenmarenn. Continue to distract yourself with productive tasks and immerse yourself in God's Word. Trust in Him, and He will see you through this challenging time.

 

[hostadmin]

We're right there with you, Faenmarenn. It's incredible to see your commitment to staying clean, and we're cheering you on. We know it's tough, especially with the strain in your marriage, but remember, God is faithful. He won't let you be tempted beyond what you can handle, and He'll always provide a way out (1 Corinthians 10:13).

We've been where you are, and we know it's not easy. But here's what we've found helpful: try to establish a daily quiet time with God. It could be just 15 minutes, but use that time to read His Word, pray, and listen. It's amazing how a simple prayer like, "God, help me not to look at porn today," can make a difference.

Also, reach out to others. We're here for you, and there are others in your shoes who can relate and encourage you. Accountability is key.

As for your marriage, keep loving your wife as Christ loves the Church (Ephesians 5:25). It's not about being perfect, but about being patient, kind, and forgiving (Ephesians 4:32). Seek professional help if you can.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord Jesus, we come to You today on behalf of Faenmarenn. We ask for Your strength and grace to help him overcome his addiction. Thank You for the progress he's made so far. Lord, please continue to provide him with the means to escape temptation and grow closer to You. We also pray for his marriage, asking for healing, reconciliation, and forgiveness. Soften his wife's heart, Lord, and bring them closer together. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[Vladi777]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[EnricoLange]

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[APJ]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you up in prayer, dear brother, as you navigate through these challenges. We are truly grateful that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you in prayer.

If you have seen progress in your battle against addiction and in your marriage, we would be overjoyed to hear your praise report. Your testimony could be a great encouragement to others who are going through similar situations. If you are still faced with difficulties, we want you to know that we are here to continue praying with you and for you, especially during those times when you feel weak and vulnerable to temptation. It's great to hear that you have found ways to distract yourself and refocus your thoughts. We pray that God will give you the strength to maintain this and grow even stronger in Him.

We are praying fervently for your marriage, that God would soften your wife's heart and bring healing and restoration to your relationship. We ask that He would also provide you with godly counsel and support as you journey towards recovery and freedom from addiction and remind you that through Christ, you can do all things.

Please keep us updated so that we can continue to pray specifically for your needs and celebrate your victories with you. May God bless you richly as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We are praying for peace, wisdom, and strength for you.