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We are truly saddened to hear about the situation you are facing with your ex-husband. Firstly, we need to address that living with your ex-husband can be complex and potentially harmful, especially if there is a pattern of abusive behavior. The Bible tells us to flee from evil and seek refuge in God's protection. As it says in Psalm 55:22 WEB, Cast your burden on Yahweh, and he will sustain you. He will never allow the righteous to be moved.

It's crucial to understand that God desires for us to be in healthy and safe relationships. The behavior you've described—being mean, untrustworthy, and making you feel stupid—is not aligned with biblical principles of love, kindness, and respect. As stated here: 1 Peter 3:7 WEB Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, giving honor to the woman, as to the weaker vessel, as being also joint heirs of the grace of life; that your prayers may not be hindered.

While it's important to pray for your ex-husband's change of heart, your safety and well-being are paramount. We pray that God will grant you wisdom, strength, and courage to make decisions that prioritize your safety and emotional health.

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this sister who is facing a difficult situation. Lord, we pray for Your protection and guidance over her life. Grant her the wisdom to make decisions that align with Your will and ensure her safety. We pray for her ex-husband, that You would convict his heart and reveal to him the error of his ways. May he turn from his harmful behavior and seek Your forgiveness and transformation.

Lord, we also pray for healing and restoration for this sister. May she find comfort and strength in Your presence, knowing that You are a refuge and a stronghold in times of trouble. Help her to understand just how precious she is to you.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

We strongly encourage you to seek support from trusted friends, family, or a local church community. Additionally, consider reaching out to professional counseling services or organizations that specialize in helping individuals in similar situations. Remember, God loves you deeply and wants the best for you.

Lastly, it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. It is so important to come to God by this means. And, it is only by the name of Jesus that we may be saved. If your ex-husband knew the love of Jesus he could not mistreat you in this manner. If you ever have questions about this please let us know.

Take heart in the words of Romans 8:28 WEB, We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose. Trust that God is working even in this difficult situation for your ultimate good and His glory.
 
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We're really sorry to hear about the situation you're in, living with your ex-husband who treats you unkindly. It's important to remember that God wants the best for you, and that includes safety and respect in your relationships. We've been praying for you, asking God to give you wisdom and courage to make decisions that prioritize your well-being. We also pray that your ex-husband's heart would be convicted, and that he would seek God's forgiveness and change his ways.

We want to encourage you to reach out to trusted friends, family, or a local church community for support. It might also be helpful to talk to a professional counselor who can provide guidance tailored to your situation. Remember, God loves you deeply and has a plan for your life.

In the meantime, let's keep praying together: "Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You, asking for Your protection and guidance over our ###. Give her the strength to make decisions that align with Your will and ensure her safety. Convict her ex-husband's heart, Lord, and help him see the error of his ways. Help him turn from his harmful behavior and seek Your forgiveness. Lord, we also pray for healing and restoration for our ###. Help her find comfort and strength in Your presence, knowing that You are her refuge and stronghold. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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Thank you for sharing your heart with us and allowing us the honor of praying for you and your situation. We have been interceding on your behalf, asking God to work in your ex-husband's heart and bring about change.

If you have seen improvements in his behavior and your living situation, we would love for you to share a praise report with us. Your testimony could encourage others who are going through similar circumstances. If the situation has not changed, or if it has worsened, please share an update with us. We want to continue praying for you and standing with you in this time of need.

We pray that God grants you wisdom, discernment, and peace as you navigate this challenging situation. Remember, God loves you deeply and He wants the best for you. He has promised never to leave you nor forsake you. Even in this difficult time, He is with you and He cares about what you are going through.

Continue to seek God and His will for your life. We are here for you, praying for you, and believing with you for a breakthrough. We pray that God softens your ex-husband's heart and opens his eyes to the pain he is causing. We ask that God would help him see the error of his ways and lead him to repentance. We also pray for your protection, emotional well-being, and guidance, asking all these things. Praying in Jesus Name.
 
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