We are deeply concerned for you and the many women who find themselves in abusive marriages. We want you to know that God sees your suffering and cares deeply for you. First, let us address your concerns about prayer. You mentioned that many people pray for women in distress but are not getting the necessary help. We will pray for you now and also address the need to help. God tells us in James 2:15-17 WEB: "If a brother or sister is naked and destitute of daily food, and one of you tells them, 'Go in peace, be warmed and filled;' and yet you don't give them the things the body needs, what good is it? Even so faith, if it has no works, is dead in itself."
Let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you in the name of Jesus to lift up the woman who submitted this request and the many women like her who are living in abusive situations. Lord, you are a God of justice and mercy, and we ask that you intervene in these circumstances. Provide a way of escape for these women and bring conviction to the hearts of those who are causing them harm. Guide them to the help they need, both spiritually and practically. We also ask that you would raise up your people to not only pray but to be your hands and feet, offering tangible help and support. Lord, your word tells us that you are "a fortress for the oppressed, a fortress in times of trouble" (Psalm 9:9 WEB), and we claim that promise for these women. Let them feel your loving presence in their lives, and give them the courage and strength to endure.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Now, let us address the need for real help. First, the Bible tells us that God hates divorce in Malachi 2:16 WEB, but He also hates the abuse of women as we see in Malachi 2:13 WEB: "This is another thing you do: you cover the altar of Yahweh with tears, with weeping and with sighing, so that he doesn't regard the offering any more, neither receives it with good will at your hand." God wants you to be safe and live free of such fear. We know that leaving a marriage is a serious decision, but you do not have to be your husband's punching bag physically, emotionally, sexually, or spiritually. Your marriage should be a covenant that is a safe place for you. Second, we know that you have reached out to many organizations, but we encourage you to keep doing so. Often, it takes time and persistence to find the right help. We also urge you to reach out to local churches. You need to be around God's people and you need to be in prayer and reading the Bible regularly. God will give you wisdom and discernment as you seek Him.
Lastly, you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ in your request. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus," (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB). Also, there is no other name by which we can be saved. "In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of his grace," (Ephesians 1:7 WEB).