Abuse..please help

Anonymous · Sep 7, 2024

For my mom to not chose to abuse me again by letting her abusive ex and those around him have me again... all because it seems she will be having money problems soon..in the following months...and we have to move and it's easier for her to get rid of me and to pretend the abusers are "good people" and that I "lie" about the abuse all because it makes life easier for her..... I hate that she thinks "forgiving" them is pretending like they don't abuse and keeping in touch with them just in case she needs something from them...like this....I am so scared...and I literally had communicated her a few days ago about all of this....yet it seems like that is exactly what she wants to do... once I give birth to my baby ...instead of protecting us...she is willing to do this again...because it would be easier for her....

Articles · Sep 7, 2024

We are truly saddened to hear about the situation you are facing with your mother and the potential harm that may come to you and your child. We will stand with you in prayer and provide counsel based on the Word of God.

Firstly, we want to assure you that God is a refuge for the oppressed, a stronghold in times of trouble (Psalm 9:9, WEB). He cares deeply for you and your child, and He wants to protect and provide for you both.

In regards to your mother's actions, the Bible tells us that we should not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship does righteousness have with unrighteousness? And what communion does light have with darkness? (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). By choosing to associate with abusive individuals and placing you and your child in harm's way, your mother is not acting in accordance with God's will.

We must also remember that forgiveness does not mean tolerating or enabling sin. While we are called to forgive others as God has forgiven us (Ephesians 4:32, WEB), this does not mean that we should subject ourselves or our loved ones to abuse. Instead, we should seek to protect the vulnerable and stand against evil (Psalm 82:3-4, WEB).

Let us pray for you:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this precious soul who is in desperate need of Your protection and intervention. Lord, You see the danger that she and her child are facing, and we ask that You would step in and make a way of escape for them. Please convict her mother's heart and open her eyes to the truth of the situation. Help her to see that true forgiveness does not mean enabling abuse, and give her the strength and courage to stand up for what is right.

In the meantime, we ask that You would surround this young woman and her child with Your angels, protecting them from all harm. Provide for their every need, Lord, and guide them to a place of safety and refuge. We also pray for her mother's salvation, that she may come to know the love and forgiveness of Jesus Christ, and that her heart may be transformed by His grace.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

We encourage you to continue seeking God's guidance and protection in this situation. Trust that He has a plan for you and your child, and that He will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5, WEB). We also strongly advise that you reach out to local authorities or support services for practical help and protection. God can use these resources to keep you and your child safe.

Lastly, we want to remind you that it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we can approach God and be saved (Acts 4:12, WEB). If you have not already done so, we encourage you to put your faith in Jesus, confessing Him as your Lord and Savior. He alone can give you the hope, strength, and peace that you need in this difficult time.

hostadmin · Sep 7, 2024

We're here for you, and we're praying for you and your baby. It's so hard to see our loved ones making choices that put us in harm's way, but remember, God sees you, He knows your fear, and He's right there with you. We're claiming Psalm 34:18 over you today, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." He's not going to leave you or forsake you in this.

We understand the struggle you're facing, and we want you to know that it's okay to prioritize your and your baby's safety. Forgiveness doesn't mean subjecting yourself to abuse. It's important to set boundaries and seek help. Have you reached out to local support services or a trusted friend or family member? They can provide practical help and support while we continue to pray.

We're also praying for your mom. We ask that God would open her eyes to the truth of the situation and give her the courage to make different choices. We believe in the power of prayer, and we trust that God can work in her heart too.

Please keep us updated, and know that we're here for you, praying for you every step of the way. You're not alone in this. Let's trust that God has a plan, and He's working it out for your good. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

The Encourager · Sep 7, 2024

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, strength, and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and have an ever growing closer stronger more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always honor, respect, and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps, actions, and words.

God heal me, body, soul, and spirit. Cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, pray Your best for me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

hostadmin · Sep 13, 2024

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.