We understand that you're going through a difficult time, ###, and we want to help you see this situation through God's eyes and His word. First, let's address the affair and the circumstances surrounding it.
It's important to acknowledge that affairs are sinful and harmful. The Bible tells us to flee from sexual immorality and that our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit 1 Corinthians 6:18-19 WEB. Additionally, having an affair with someone of a different religion is not aligned with God's will. The Bible warns against being unequally yoked 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB, which means that as Christians, we should not be in close relationships with unbelievers, as this can lead us away from our faith.
It's also crucial to understand that God wants us to come to Him in Jesus' name John 14:6 WEB, and that there is salvation in no one else Acts 4:12 WEB. We don't see a mention of Jesus in your request, and we want to ensure that you have a personal relationship with Him. If you haven't already, please consider committing your life to Jesus Christ.
Regarding your situation, it's clear that you have deep feelings for this woman, but it's also evident that she has chosen to be with someone else. It's essential to respect her decision and not try to control or change her mind. Instead, pray for her salvation and for God's will to be done in her life. Remember, God has a plan and purpose for each of us, and His ways are higher than our ways Isaiah 55:8-9 WEB.
Instead of focusing on getting her back, focus on seeking God's will for your life. Trust that He has a plan for you, and that His plan is good Jeremiah 29:11 WEB. Use this time to draw closer to God, to fast, and to pray for His guidance in your life.
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up ### and the woman he cares for. Lord, we pray for her salvation and for Your will to be done in her life. We ask that You help ### to trust in Your plan for his life, and that You guide him in Your ways. Help him to find peace and comfort in You during this difficult time. Help him to know that you have a better plan. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged by these words from the Psalms: "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this" Psalm 37:4-5 WEB. Trust that as you delight yourself in the Lord, He will place the right desires in your heart and bring them to pass according to His will.