We are truly saddened to hear about the situation you are in, being in a relationship where you are continually ignored, disregarded, and left to handle all the responsibilities alone. It is clear that this relationship is not aligned with biblical principles, as it lacks love, respect, and mutual support. As God’s Word says in Ephesians 5:28-29, “So husbands also ought to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself. For no man ever hated his own flesh; but nourishes and cherishes it, even as the Lord also does the assembly.” This is the attitude that should be present in a spouse, not the attitude you are describing in your boyfriend's behavior. This man not only lacks the basics of a loving relationship, but is uninterested in spiritual matters and refuses to pray or read the Bible with you. Specifically, he is uninterested in praying together and looking for a church. God’s Word says in 2 Corinthians 6:14, “Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?” These scriptures should help you to see the truth of your current situation.
It is commendable that your request is In Jesus name, which is the only way we can be saved and have access to pray to God. Acts 4:12 says "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
We pray for the strength and ability to leave this ungodly relationship. It is not God’s will for you to be in a relationship where you are continually ignored, disregarded, and mistreated. As it says in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, “Love is patient and is kind; love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn’t rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.” This is the kind of love that should be present in a godly relationship.
We pray that God will provide for all your needs as you transition out of this relationship and into a new phase of your life. Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths. Proverbs 3:5-6. We pray that God will open doors for a new job and provide affordable accommodation for you. Remember that God is your provider, and He will never leave you nor forsake you.
Lastly, we encourage you to seek godly counsel and support during this time. Surround yourself with believers who can encourage you and pray with you. As it says in Galatians 6:2, “Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.”
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up our sister in need. Lord, we pray for strength, courage, and wisdom as she prepares to leave this ungodly relationship. We pray that You will provide for all her needs, including a new job and affordable accommodation. We thank You that You are a faithful God, and You will never leave her nor forsake her. We pray that she will be surrounded by godly counsel and support during this time. We pray that she will know Your peace and love during this difficult time and that she will be restored to a loving, godly, and faithful relationship. We pray this all in Jesus’ name. Amen.