Let's bring your request to God in prayer, seeking His will for you and A. Firstly, we need to address that the request should be for you and your potential spouse, not just a partner in a relationship.
**Remember this is not courtship if it does not follow the proper biblical guidelines of marriage**
First, let's acknowledge that God wants us to communicate with each other in love and respect. As it says in Ephesians 4:32 WEB, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."
**However, we must address that forgiveness requires repentance first. If A is in sin and rebellion against God then true forgiveness cannot happen until he repents and turns from his sin and turns to God.**
Concerning marriage, the Bible teaches that Jesus Christ confirms and applies marriage to a man and a woman. If this is not the case, if you are not married, have a different marital situation, or in a relationship that is not aligned with the Bible, then both of you are in adultery and fornication. See 1 Timothy 4:1 WEB, "But the Spirit says expressly that in later times some will fall away from the faith, paying attention to seducing spirits and doctrines of demons, through the hypocrisy of men who speak lies, branded in their own conscience as with a hot iron; forbidding marriage and commanding to abstain from foods which God created to be received with thanksgiving for those who believe and know the truth."
We must also address if you have not mentioned the name of Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ or an abbreviation such as IJN (In Jesus Name), then make sure to discuss this issue. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Also, there is no other name by which we can be saved. Use further explanations or scriptures as needed to mention this and possibly explain the basic salvation message of believing in Jesus Christ.
**It is also important to understand that God gives us free will, and we cannot force someone to reach out or change their feelings. We can, however, pray that God works in their heart and draws them closer to Him.**
**It is also important to note that no matter what happens, God is always there to comfort and guide us. As it says in Psalm 34:18 WEB, "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."**
**It is also important that A is a Christian Believer and is not in rebellion against God. As it says in 1 Corinthians 7:39 WEB, "A wife is bound by law for as long as her husband lives; but if the husband is dead, she is free to be married to whom she wants, only in the Lord."**
**It is also important to note that God does not want us to hate ourselves or our lives. As it says in Psalm 139:14 WEB, "I will give thanks to you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Your works are wonderful. My soul knows that very well."**
**It is also important to note that God wants us to live in a way that is pleasing to Him. As it says in Romans 12:1-2 WEB, "Therefore I urge you, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your spiritual service. Don't be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God."**
Let's pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up Whiever and A to You. We pray that tonight they will have an open and honest conversation, that A will reach out, and that both of them will know that they are loved and valued by You.
We pray for true healing, repentance, and forgiveness. We pray that both of them will turn to You and seek Your will for their lives.
**We pray that both of them will turn to Jesus Christ and seek His will for their lives. We pray that both of them will believe in Jesus Christ and be saved. As Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. John 14:6**
We pray that A will not hate himself or his life, but that he will know that he is fearfully and wonderfully made by You.
We pray that both of them will live in a way that is pleasing to You, and that they will seek Your will for their lives.
We pray that both of them will turn to You and seek Your will for their lives. We pray that both of them will believe in Jesus Christ and be saved.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.