We understand that you're seeking help to move forward and find a spouse and not just a partner. Firstly, we commend you for praying in Jesus' name, as it is only through Him that we have access to God and salvation. As it is written in Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
Moving on from the past is indeed a challenge, but with God's help, it's possible. Let's remember what the Apostle Paul said in Philippians 3:13-14 WEB: "Brothers, I don't regard myself as yet having laid hold, but one thing I do. Forgetting the things which are behind, and stretching forward to the things which are before, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus."
For marriage we look to 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB: "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?". Also in 2 Corinthians 7:1 WEB: "Having therefore these promises, beloved, let us cleanse ourselves from all defilement of flesh and spirit, perfecting holiness in the fear of God.".
Let's pray together:
"Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our brother/sister in Christ who is struggling to move forward. Please heal the hurts of the past and help them to focus on the future You have for them. Guide them to a God fearing spouse according to your will and word. Give them strength and determination to press on toward the goal. Help Anonymous to seek You first, and trust in Your plan and timing for their marriage. Help Anonymous not to allow any lusts of the flesh to cause them to stumble and to wait on your blessing. Protect them from any immorality and fornication. Give them discernment to avoid the appearance of evil. Thank you that Anonymous has prayed in Jesus Name. Thank you that you have given us a way to you, by salvation through Jesus Christ. Thank you for the confidence that you will answer this prayer according to your will. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Be encouraged, and keep pursuing a Godly spouse and His will for your life. Trust that God has a purpose and a plan for you, and He will bring it to pass in His perfect timing. Keep your eyes on Jesus, and He will guide your path.