We understand that you are seeking prayer for your relationship with your girlfriend, Norhida. While we empathize with your desire for a warm and loving connection, we must first address some biblical principles that should guide your relationship.
Firstly, it is crucial to recognize that God's design for romantic relationships is that they should be between a man and a woman, ultimately leading to marriage. The Bible teaches us that marriage is a lifelong commitment between one man and one woman. In Genesis 2:24 (WEB), it is written, "Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh."
Secondly, if you are in a relationship that is more than friendship, then you should be on a path to marriage. This involves courtship, which is a time of getting to know each other deeply with the intention of discerning God's will for your lives together.
Thirdly, it is important to address any sexual intimacy outside of marriage. The Bible clearly teaches that sexual intimacy is reserved for marriage alone. In 1 Corinthians 6:18 (WEB), it says, "Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body." If this applies to your situation, we urge you to repent and seek God's forgiveness.
Now, let us pray for you and Norhida. We have to point out that the only way for us to access God is by the name of Jesus.
Let us pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Sonny and Norhida. We pray that You will guide their relationship according to Your will and Your principles. If it is Your will for them to be together, we pray that You will restore the warmth and love in their relationship. Help them to communicate openly and honestly, and to seek Your guidance in all things.
We also pray that You will help them to remain pure and holy in their relationship, reserving sexual intimacy for marriage alone. Give them the strength to resist temptation and to honor You in all they do.
If there is any reason for the coldness in their relationship, we pray that You will reveal it to them and help them to address it in a godly manner. Help them to forgive each other as You have forgiven us, and to love each other as You have loved us.
Most importantly, we pray that both Sonny and Norhida will come to a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ if they have not already. Help them to understand that it is only through faith in Jesus that they can be saved and have a right relationship with You.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.