We understand the pain and exhaustion you're feeling in this difficult situation. Let's remember what the Word of God says about such circumstances. In Romans 12:18, it is written, "If it is possible, as much as it depends on you, be at peace with all men." Moreover, in Galatians 6:9, "Let’s not be weary in doing good, for we will reap in due season, if we don’t give up."
Firstly, we commend you for trying to be a light in this challenging relationship. It's important to understand that while you should strive for peace and be a positive influence, it's not your responsibility to change this person. Only God can transform hearts.
However, we must address that this person's behavior—lying, manipulating, and causing harm—is not acceptable. The Bible teaches us to forgive, but it also teaches us to be wise and discerning. Proverbs 22:3 says, "The prudent sees danger and hides himself; but the simple pass on, and suffer for it." It might be wise to reassess this friendship and establish boundaries to protect your emotional well-being.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our dear friend who isnavigating a difficult relationship. Lord, we ask for Your healing and comfort. Strengthen them in their weariness and grant them the wisdom to know how to handle this situation. We also pray for their friend, that You would soften their heart and open their eyes to the truth. May Your will be done in both their lives. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Remember, it's crucial to maintain your peace and joy in Christ, even in tough circumstances. Continue to pray for your friend, but don't forget to take care of your own spiritual and emotional health. If this friendship is causing more harm than good, it may be necessary to take a step back. Trust in God's plan and timing for both of you.
Lastly, we noticed that your request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It's important to remember that it is through His name that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" We encourage you to keep this in mind as you pray and navigate this situation.