A sign that my wife and I are reconciling.

[Giltsander]

Struggling with possible divorce and 9 months of in house separation. I am changing dramatically and following through with all the issues and other things to improve for my self and wife . I love her so deeply and have always and take care of her and try to make her feel special every single day. My main issues was over working in a failing situation at work were I have no help and everything is on me . Actively working on a new job. My wife is allowing more hugs and I feel we are growing closer. I love her so much and wish I could lay next to her at night for a little bit to start the healing and feel that her and I still love each other. I do everything to make her feel special because that's what my heart says. I thank Jesus everyday and pray for being even closer and mending this difficult year.

 

[Articles]

We are glad to hear that you are working towards reconciliation with your wife and that you are seeing positive signs of growth in your relationship. It is commendable that you are taking steps to address the issues that have led to this separation, and we want to encourage you to continue seeking God's will in this process.

Firstly, we want to remind you of the importance of prayer in your marriage. The Bible tells us in Matthew 19:6, "So that they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate." And in Colossians 3:14, "But above all these things, put on love, which is the bond of perfection." It is clear that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, and that love is the bond that holds it together.

We also want to encourage you to continue seeking God's guidance in your career. It is important to find a balance between work and family, and we pray that God will provide you with a new job that allows you to do that. Remember that God is faithful and that He will provide for your needs according to His riches in glory.

However, we want to address something that you mentioned in your request. You mentioned that you wish you could lay next to her at night to start the healing process. While we understand your desire to be close to your wife, we want to remind you that sexual intimacy should be reserved for marriage. If you and your wife are not yet reconciled, it is important to maintain boundaries that honor God and each other. In 1 Corinthians 6:18, it says, "Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."

Let us pray for you and your wife:

Heavenly Father, we come before You today in prayer for Giltsander and his wife. We thank You for the love that they have for each other and for the steps they are taking towards reconciliation. We pray that You would continue to guide them in this process and that You would heal the hurts of the past. We pray that You would provide Giltsander with a new job that allows him to balance his work and family responsibilities, and that You would give him wisdom in how to love his wife as Christ loves the church. We pray that You would bless their marriage and that it would be a testament to Your faithfulness and love. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

We encourage you to continue praying for your marriage and to seek God's guidance in all things. Remember that God is faithful and that He wants to bless your marriage and use it for His glory. Keep trusting in Him and keep seeking His will for your life.

If you have not already, we encourage you to surrender your life and marriage completely to Jesus Christ. It is only through Him that we have access to God and that we can be saved.

 

[hostadmin]

We're so glad to hear that you're both working towards reconciling and growing closer. It's wonderful to see the progress you're making, and we're here to support you every step of the way. We want to encourage you to keep seeking God's will in this process, and to remember that He is always there to guide and strengthen you.

We've been thinking about how much you love your wife, and how you want to make her feel special every day. That's a beautiful thing! We want to remind you of the power of small, consistent acts of love. It could be a kind word, a thoughtful gesture, or even just a simple "I love you" before you go to sleep. These little things can mean so much and help to build a strong foundation for your relationship.

We also want to encourage you to keep praying together as a couple. Praying together can bring you closer, help you to understand each other better, and remind you both of your commitment to God and to each other. It can be a powerful tool for healing and growth in your marriage.

Remember, it's okay to take things slow. Healing and rebuilding trust takes time, and it's important not to rush it. Be patient with each other, and keep communicating openly and honestly. God is with you both, every step of the way.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we come to You today and ask for Your blessing on Giltsander and his wife. We thank You for the love they have for each other, and for the progress they've made in their relationship. We ask that You would continue to guide them and heal the hurts of the past. Help them to love each other as You love us, with patience, kindness, and faithfulness. Give them wisdom in their communication and decision-making, and help them to trust in You even in the difficult times. We ask all this in Jesus' name. Amen."

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you and your wife up in prayer, trusting God for a full reconciliation and healing in your marriage. Thank you for sharing your journey with us and allowing us to stand in agreement with you. We are encouraged to hear about the positive signs of reconciliation and the efforts you're making to improve yourself and your marriage.

We praise God for the progress you've shared, like the increase in affection and the closeness you feel to your wife. Let us continue to pray for more opportunities for you both to connect and heal, such as the desire you expressed to be close to her.

If you've seen more positive changes and answers to your prayers, we would love for you to share them with us. Your testimonies will encourage us and others who are praying for you. If the journey is still challenging, and you need further intercession, please share an update, and we will persist in praying with you.

We pray that God will continue to bless you and your family as you seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. Let us agree in prayer that God will guide you in your new job and provide the help you need. Also, pray that He would continue to soften your wife's heart towards you, and you will both experience a renewed love and commitment to each other.

We pray for supernatural wisdom and love to flow in your marriage, and that both of you will be drawn closer to God and each other during this process. We declare restoration, healing, and unity in your marriage, in Jesus' name. Keep holding on to hope and trusting God for the best outcome according Pray in Jesus Name.

 

[Giltsander]

Thank you for all your kind words and prayers. Things are going a little better. I feel we are growing closer everyday. Things are still in the air and I live daily with the anxiety of the possibilities. Nothing has been said more. But we are still in house separated. I have made alot of progress becoming more helpful and available which has made my wife happy. Still looking for the right job so I can maintain this. My current job , I tried so hard but we will be busy again with no help and it's just time to leave. I say goodnight to my wife every night and hug her , but still sleeping seperate. I pray everyday and thank Jesus for what I have. I will try even harder everyday to save my marriage and show my wife I love her so unconditionally and I love God and Jesus and everyone and I thought I was doing the right thing by working alot. Thank you for your prayers, I pray soon my wife and I will have a great moment or we continue to bond and be even closer and love each other and want to be with each other. I love taking care of her and making her and anybody feel special.

Thank you