A Request For Love/peace Between We Best Friends

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Me and my best friend have been in a best friendship relationship for last one year.

But recently we have been facing alot of turbulence in our relationship.

We both love care and understand each other well.

But in recent times we are failing to take care and fulfill our expectations with each other bcoz of our life in outside world

Our worries,fear and stress of our career & future is causing a lot of impact on our relationship..

We both trust each other and have patience that some or the other day all things are going to be fine.

And that's y we never complain to each other ..even if we get angry about each other we don't reveal and try to get out of it.

We are just best friends and not in a relationship as of now.

For we both have a desire or having a true love in our life..but we don't know what the true love is.

For me ideal love is just like a love which god have for us and which a mother has for her children.

But we haven't got any magical feeling about each other yet.

I don't know why its so that we haven't got that feeling for each other.

But I want we both to witness love so thus we cab have a new beautiful name for this relationship and give to each other the best relationship possible.

May if lord almighty desires be there a love of more than a friendship between each other .
 
Good evening Anonymous! Thank you for praying to God for your problems and sharing among us brothers and sisters. I'll pray for you, but listen :

You are right about God's love being true love. It is the most true, as we believe. It is often portrayed as a fatherly/motherly love as though to a dear child, but in a human view this perspective can be faulty. A mother, for instance, does not love unconditionally. A human cannot love unconditionally, although "unconditional" is true love. A mother loves her child on the condition that she is her child. She wouldn't love another baby the same way. I hope you understand this. 

If you've both yet to know true love, I pray for you both. God has yet to work in you, He is gathering the perfect opportunity. He is going to put you through the flames so you can come out the most authentic YOU. You and your best friend, if God has planned your friendship to be glorious, will come out of the oven after this even stronger. Or you could crack. But you may be put into the oven MANY times. But remember: NOTHING IS EVER TOO BROKEN FOR GOD TO FIX. He is God! You are His child, and be ready for a great adventure!

Next, I want to point out how you already notice that a relationship cannot be built the way you describe yours: keeping things bottled in your own heart. The same for yourself: you cannot bottle your emotions in. They will overflow and overwhelm you. You probably noticed this, since you mentioned it. A relationship consists of loving one another. To love another, you must love yourself before, as God loved you FIRST. It's a triangular love, but not in the human way. Loving someone else gets very tiring, because once again, it's not unconditional. That person can get annoying.

It's the same as breathing, someone once said to me. You breathe in God's love, let it circulate within you to fill your lungs, then breathe out His love. If you keep breathing out, never taking a breath, you will die.

So with your best friend, if that person really is your best friend, you must be clear about EVERYTHING. Even your sins. Only that way you will be the BEST of friends. Then you will have peace, and love. God will let you know of this.

God Is good, all the time. 

But a question now.... just curiosity... You can message me too.. Are you best friends of opposite gender? I'm sorry if I sound nosy but I wasn't too clarified in your prayer. 

But listen, I'm sorry I wrote you such a paragraph. I hope you manage to read through it and that God speaks to you through me. I actually rewrote this (so wrote it twice) because I accidentally reloaded the page once. I thought of you a lot!

Hang in there! 

Peggy
 
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God, I pray that you may keep this relationship. In Jesus name. Amen.

It's satan who is behind it. Just love each other even more and dont let the world affect you too much.
 
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