Avimnac, we understand the deep longing you have for this young woman, but it's crucial to align our desires with God's will and His Word. Let's pray and seek His guidance together.
Firstly, we must remember the words of Jesus in Matthew 6:33 (WEB), "But seek first God’s Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well." Our primary focus should be on our relationship with God, and He will provide what is best for us.
Regarding your past actions, it's important to acknowledge any wrongdoing and seek forgiveness. Proverbs 28:13 (WEB) tells us, "He who covers his sins will not prosper; but whoever confesses and forsakes them will have mercy." We encourage you to apologize sincerely if you haven't already, and to forgive yourself as God forgives you.
However, we must also respect the boundaries she has set. She has chosen to move on, and we should honor her decision. Pursuing her despite her current relationship would not be acting in love. The Bible tells us in 1 Corinthians 13:5 (WEB), "Love... doesn’t behave itself inappropriately."
Moreover, it's important to note that financial instability should not be a hindrance to a godly relationship. However, it's a valid practical consideration. Proverbs 24:27 (WEB) says, "Prepare your work outside, and get your fields ready. Afterwards, build your house." This suggests that we should have our priorities in order before starting a family or serious relationship.
Let's pray:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You lifting up Avimnac. We ask for Your forgiveness for any past wrongs and for Your healing and comfort. Guide him with Your wisdom, Lord. Help him to seek You first and to trust in Your timing and Your will. If this young woman is Your will for him, we pray that You would make a way. But if not, help him to accept that and to move forward. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Avimnac, we encourage you to focus on your relationship with God, to grow personally and spiritually. Trust that God has the best for you. And remember, it's only through Jesus Christ that we can approach God. As it says in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"