A prayer that my girlfriend becomes more hopeful and continues the relaitonsip

Glertanick

Disciple of Prayer
I’ve been in a long distance relationship at my university for 2 years with a girl I met towards the end of high school. We are both in the same country and time zone but about 9 hours away. We’ve handled long distance for 2 years and are getting closer to her graduation after which she could potentially be closer to me and we will definitely be meeting more often than we do. I graduate 2 years after her. In the last year she’s lost her grandfather, dog and now nearly her grandmother, 3 of the most important people in her life. I feel that the recent issue with her grandmother has led to all the grief piling up and her becoming so pessimistic to the point where she’s losing hope that we can close the distance despite us having a plan and timeline. The uncertainty of her job and thus the future is a big reason why she says she can’t do this anymore. This is despite her saying she loves me to bits and too much, and wants us to spend our whole life together. Please give her the strength to regain faith and happiness in her life because it’s like she’s pushing me away so that she can feel nothing rather than the pain that comes when we’re apart. I know we’ve got this and love each other so much. This is the girl I envision spending my life with. We have similar goals and ambitions too. I feel she’s become reclusive recently because of all the above reasons. Please pray she regains hope and realises what we have is real and worth fighting for. We’re meeting this weekend in order to have a conversation. I’m Aryan. Please pray for my girlfriend, me and our relationship.
 
Let us first address the beautiful aspects of the relationship between Glertanick and his girlfriend. It is commendable that they have maintained a long-distance relationship for two years, and they are making plans for a future together. We can see the love and commitment they have for each other, which is a wonderful foundation for a godly marriage. However this needs to move to the goal of marriage.

However, there are several concerns that need to be addressed. First, it is crucial to acknowledge that the hope and strength we seek should come from the Lord Jesus Christ. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Also, there is no other name by which we can be saved. We need to put our faith and trust in Him, for He is the source of our hope and strength. As it is written in Psalm 461 God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.. In Philippians 413, we are reminded that we can do all things through Christ who strengthens us. We encourage both of them to put their faith and trust in Jesus Christ, for He is the only way to the Father. As it is written in John 146, Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.

Believing that the girlfriend is becoming more pessimistic and losing hope and that the girlfriend is pushing him away to avoid pain, goes against the biblical principles of love, hope, and faith. As it is written in 1 Corinthians 137, Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things., and in Hebrews 111, Now faith is assurance of things hoped for, proof of things not seen..

Regarding future uncertainty, we need to remember that God is in control of our future, though we should still work hard towards the desired results. We should strongly endorse marriage when appropriate, instead of discussing partners or relationships. As they love each other so much, they should consider saving themselves for marriage. Sex before or outside marriage is fornication and should be addressed if in the context.

So let us pray and address all issues not aligning with biblical principles.

Lord Jesus reason with the girlfriend. Stopping all premarital sex is also important. Make your lives pure and holy, pleasing to God. 1 Thessalonians 43 states It is God's will that you should be sanctified that you should avoid sexual immorality. That will also help grow hope between Glertanick and his girlfriend. Also the business of life, hopes, or reclusion. She is hurting losing those close to her and uses pain avoidance rather than the biblically prescribed method of loving others unconditionally, including others her boyfriend.

It is written in Philippians 46 . Do not be anxious about anything; but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God.. So let us pray together for Glertanick and his girlfriend.

Dear Jesus Christ,

We come before You, lifting up Glertanick and his girlfriend to You. We pray that You would fill them with Your hope, strength, God's form of love for them. Help them to trust in You and in Your plans for their future. We pray that You would comfort her in her grief and help her to see that You are close to the brokenhearted and save those who are crushed in spirit however there are conditions and expectations for Christians. strengthen Glertanick and his girlfriend help them to faithfully love one another and keeping ourselves only for our spouse sexually. She is hurting and handling things so poorly, but we know You have brought them together for Your reasons. Restore her hope restore the joy of their future marriage and salvation, and help them to see that their relationship is worth fighting for, by obeying You, and then You will bless them.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
We're here for you, friend. We understand that your girlfriend's recent losses and uncertainty about the future have taken a toll on her, leading her to lose hope in your relationship. It's like she's in a dark tunnel, and we're here to shine a light and walk with her.

First, let's remind her of the love and commitment you both share. That's a powerful beacon in the darkness. Then, let's encourage her to turn to Jesus, who is the light of the world. As it says in John 8:12, "When Jesus spoke again to the people, he said, 'I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness but will have the light of life.'"

Let's pray that she finds comfort in His embrace, that she feels His love surrounding her. Let's ask Him to fill her with hope, to help her see the future you both dream of, and to give her the strength to face each day with courage.

And remember, you're not alone in this. We're here, and so is Jesus. Together, we'll walk through this tunnel and find the light at the end. Let's trust in Him, for He is faithful.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
 
We continue to uphold you and your girlfriend in our prayers, Aryan. We are truly grateful for the opportunity to intercede on your behalf. As we stand in agreement with you, we believe that God is working in your situation, even at this very moment.

If you have seen improvements in her hope and optimism, we would be thrilled to hear about it. Please share a praise report with us, so we can all rejoice together. If the situation remains unchanged, or if you feel led to, please post a new request. We are here to support you and will continue to pray with you and for you both.

As you prepare for your meeting this weekend, we pray for wisdom, understanding, and love to guide your conversation. May you both be reminded of God's love and plan for your lives and relationship. We pray for comfort and strength for your girlfriend as she deals with her grief and uncertainty. May she find hope and solace in the Lord, and may your love and support be a beacon of light for her.

We pray in Jesus Name
 

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