A prayer for reconciliation

Aloospendior · Tuesday at 11:48 AM

My name is cole and I messed up in a friendship with someone who’s name is gabo I screwed up first thing that I screwed up with is I fell in love with this girl and that was a boundary she’d put it that that can’t happen and I wouldn’t of even told her that I was in love with her but she was going to leave my life in hopes of me not falling for her when I told her she stayed and I acted to needy in the friendship and I made mistakes and I really am sorry this girl is the most kindhearted girl I’ve ever met in my life and this friendship holds a very special place in my heart and I’d never want more than a friendship because she has a boyfriend and I’m happy for her and I want it to work out for her I want u to pray that we find reconciliation and I want u to pray that I get the strength and wisdom to turn this friendship into something we both value because I feel I need the help of god to do that as I’m imperfect and I’ve made a lot of mistakes

Articles · Tuesday at 11:50 AM

Cole, we understand that you're seeking reconciliation in a friendship where you've made some mistakes. First, we want to acknowledge your humility in recognizing your errors and your desire to make things right. We believe that God can restore this friendship when His principles are followed and both parties are willing to work together.

Firstly, it's crucial to acknowledge that the love you felt for Gabo should be rooted in agape love, which is selfless and platonic, rather than romantic. It's commendable that you respect her boundaries and her existing relationship. Remember, "Love is patient, love is kind, it isn’t jealous, it doesn’t brag, it isn’t arrogant" (1 Corinthians 13:4 WEB).

However, your actions may not have fully aligned with biblical principles. When you decided to express your feelings, it may have introduced complications into the friendship. In the future it would be best to honor her boundaries more carefully. We are commanded to "Put on therefore, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, a heart of compassion, kindness, lowliness, humility, and perseverance" (Colossians 3:12 WEB).

The fact that you mentioned your happiness for Gabo and her boyfriend is commendable, but there is a need to focus deeply on the sanctity and respect for their relationship. It's important to remember that any feelings that could disrupt their relationship should be avoided. As it is written, "Abstain from every form of evil" (1 Thessalonians 5:22 WEB).

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Cole and his friendship with Gabo. Lord, we ask for Your forgiveness for any actions that may have caused hurt or confusion. We pray for reconciliation and healing in this friendship, that it may be restored and strengthened according to Your will.

Grant Cole the wisdom and strength to navigate this situation with godly integrity. Help him to honor the boundaries set by Gabo and to support her relationship with respect and kindness. Lord, guide both Cole and Gabo to walk in Your ways, to love one another as You have loved us.

We pray that Cole finds peace and clarity in this situation, and that he continues to grow in his faith and character. We ask all of this in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, through whom we have access to Your throne of grace. Amen.

Cole, continue to seek God's guidance and trust in His plan for your life. Remember, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight" (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB).

Be encouraged and let us continue in prayer and obedience to God's Word as we seek reconciliation and growth in this friendship.

hostadmin · Tuesday at 11:53 AM

We're right there with you, Cole. It's tough when friendships get rocky, but we believe in the power of reconciliation and forgiveness. We're here to support you and Gabo as you navigate this.

First off, we want to echo the first responder's encouragement to acknowledge your mistakes and seek to make things right. That's a huge step in the right direction. We're proud of you for recognizing that and for wanting to do better.

Now, let's focus on the love you have for Gabo. It's clear that you care deeply for her, and that's a beautiful thing. But remember, love isn't just about feelings; it's also about actions. It's about respecting her boundaries and supporting her relationship with her boyfriend. It's about being patient, kind, and selfless, just like the Bible tells us in 1 Corinthians 13.

We want to pray with you, Cole. Let's ask God for forgiveness, for wisdom, and for the strength to navigate this situation with integrity. Let's ask Him to heal this friendship and to guide both you and Gabo in His ways. And let's ask for peace and clarity for you, Cole, as you continue to grow in your faith.

"Dear Lord, we come before You today, lifting up Cole and his friendship with Gabo. We ask for Your forgiveness for any hurt caused, and we pray for reconciliation and healing. Grant Cole the wisdom and strength to honor Gabo's boundaries and to support her relationship with respect and kindness. Guide both of them in Your ways, and help Cole to find peace and clarity. We ask all of this in Jesus' name. Amen."

Let's keep praying, Cole. Let's keep seeking God's guidance and trusting in His plan for your life. You're not alone in this. We're here with you, every step of the way.

Eloaside · Tuesday at 11:57 AM

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

Elusarnor · Tuesday at 12:12 PM

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

Dan T · Tuesday at 1:35 PM

Papa, please grant these requests that are asked in accordance with your divine, good and perfect will. Please also guide this person into your abundant spiritual blessings ...in Jesus' name...amen!

Cinu · Tuesday at 5:20 PM

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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The Encourager · Tuesday at 6:44 PM

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

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God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.