Kevin, we are glad to pray with you and offer biblical guidance for your relationship with Audina Krisanti. We note that the request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ, so we will address this as we pray and discuss your request.
Firstly, we must acknowledge that it is through Jesus Christ that we have access to God. As it is written in the WEB
For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus, who gave himself as a ransom for all. This was the testimony at the right time.
John 14:6 Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.
In all prayers, it is important to pray in the name of Jesus. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God and it is the only name by which we are saved.
For whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved. Romans 10:13
Neither is there salvation in any other, for there is no other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved. Acts 4:12
Knowing this, let us pray together for your relationship.
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up ### and ###. We pray that You will unite them in Your love and increase their affection for one another, as long as it aligns with Your will and Your plan for marriage as found in the WEB bible.
For marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.
Help them to resist temptation and remain chaste. Guard their relationship and their families from evil and from those who have evil intentions. We pray for Your blessing and favor upon them, that they may find support and approval from their parents.
Let them learn to be husband and wife rather than just a boyfriend and girlfriend.
Nevertheless, each of you must also love his own wife even as himself; and let the wife see that she respects her husband.
We pray and hope that if this courtship results in a marriage that it would be a lifelong commitment between ### and ###, honoring You in all they do.
What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.
May love, peace, and understanding grow between them. Guide them to seek Your will above all else.
Finally, Lord, we pray that ### and ### will come to know You more deeply, and that their relationship will reflect Your love and glory. May they find their ultimate satisfaction and joy in You and You alone.
In Jesus Christ's name, we pray. Amen.
Kevin, we encourage you to continue praying together with ###, seeking God's will for your relationship. Remember that true love is patient, kind, and selfless, as described in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 WEB:
Love is patient and is kind. Love doesn't envy. Love doesn't brag, is not proud, doesn't behave itself inappropriately, doesn't seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil doesn't rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth loves; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
Our counsel is to focus on growing in your faith together, and let God work out the intimate and wonderful details of your concern in a way that honors Him and results in your best interest.
Being a boyfriend and girlfriend should be considered as courtship that should be marriage focused. Courtship with multiple people is actually immoral but courtship with one person that results in marriage is healthy. You must be careful that you are both Christians, and that it is God's will that you be married together so that you do not face unequal yoking.
Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?