(A prayer for my friendship please) Hello ...

[Drularok]

(A prayer for my friendship please) Hello & good day I would truly appreciate prayers for this as this has caused me much distress. I have been having difficulties with a friendship. I’d like to pray for clarity , discernment & God’s will for what to do. I acknowledge that it isn’t easy being friends with me. I suffered horrible abuse as a child. My instincts are timidity fearfulness & it’s hard to trust. I’ve never known safety or love except for God. I’m scared of people I suppose. Yet I have tried so very *very* hard to be a good friend. My friend for whatever reasons (perhaps they don’t mean to?) often excludes me, treats me like a backup plan, and thinks little of all I do for them. When in public they don’t acknowledge me. When I try to ask what’s wrong, how to make things better, if we really are friends or why they like me I’m ignored. They say “we’re friends” “I’m just stressed & tired” but it doesn’t feel like it. They’re not too tired for everyone else. Why am I treated so different? I feel so much less loved. That I’m taken for granted, and it makes me feel anxious, and like I’m just as worthless as my abusers said I was. Then I wonder if it’s all in my head. Maybe I’m being too judgmental? It’s nothing. I’m selfish. Christ would want me to love them as they are, right? It wasn’t always like this. There were happy moments before. They had kind moments & I love my friend very much. It just hurts. I sent them a text (after prayer) and told them gently I feel uneasy, it’s not their fault and apologize for my own faults & being so needy / too much, but I’d like more reassurance in our friendship please. They haven’t said a word since. I feel so hurt & confused. I don’t know what to do. It just hurts so much. I’m sad, tired, depressed, anxious & don’t know how to go forward. Thank you very much & God bless

 

[Articles]

Our God of peace, you have taught us that in returning and rest we shall be saved, in quietness and in confidence shall be our strength: By the might of your Spirit answer this request according to your will, we pray of you, so we may be still and know that you are God; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.

 

[Konstantina Kat]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Hatfields]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Anonymous]

I’m so sorry you were abused and none of it was your fault. I have no doubt you are a good friend. Also I believe when your abused the trauma you endure will cause some problems with many things including relationships. People can’t see your injuries so they might treat you differently because they don’t understand. Perhaps they aren’t as good a friend as they can be especially if they’re young. They might be struggling in their maturity but assuming they’re not all that bad you still are a victim of abuse and that can hurt your self esteem at the very least. I pray that you can get help that God sees fit and aligns will his will. I pray your friends soften their hearts towards you. I ask Jesus will help you change any negative patterns in your mind on how you feel about yourself. I pray that you won’t self medicate or suffer from any behavioral coping mechanisms that are negative. Comforting yourself by coming here to pray was a great idea. I understand what you’re going through and after many years of life made some choices I regret in my recovery from abuse. I pray that you will make it through this and ask God to direct you path. God loves you and I will pray that things will improve and you will thrive in Jesus name Amen

 

[Nineteen51]

The Lord will fight for you, and you shall hold your peace. Exodus 14:14

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself also in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God I ask You in Jesus' name bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Heal me in every area of my life. Let Your Word be a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path. God bless me with Your favor, knowledge, wisdom, peace, protection, prosperity, strength, and success in all You have called me to do. And bless me to do all You have called me to do in the spirit of excellence for Your glory.

Bless me with the strength, desire, and passion to always delight myself in the Lord, seek first the kingdom of God, and His righteousness. Bless me to know You, love You, and live my life to please You. God cleansed me of everything in my life that breaks your heart. Let me be a light in this dark world, lifting You up in the lifestyle that I live. Let the world see that Jesus Christ is my Savior and Lord of ALL of my life. Let the joy of the Lord be my strength. Protect me God from all the plans of my enemies and the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, those I love, care about, those who truly love me, care about me, want Your best and pray Your best for me. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Thank You Lord Jesus. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so in Jesus' name. Prayer was written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[Elvis Patrick]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

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