We understand your heart's desire for your elder brother's return and the concerns you have about negative influences in your life. Let us pray together and seek God's will according to His Word.
Firstly, we rejoice with you in your faith and your prayer in Jesus' name. As Jesus said, "Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you ask anything in my name, I will do it" (John 14:13-14 WEB).
Let us pray for your elder brother:
"Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our beloved brother who has been away for many years. Lord, You have promised in Your Word, 'Behold, I will bring them from the north country, and gather them from the uttermost parts of the earth, among them the blind and the lame, the woman with child and her who travails with child together. A great company will return there' (Jeremiah 31:8 WEB). We claim this promise for our brother's safe return. We ask that You soften his heart, guide his steps, and bring him back to his family, just as the prodigal son returned to his father (Luke 15:11-32 WEB). We pray this in Jesus' name. Amen."
Regarding the negative effects of "spider" in your life, we understand this to be a metaphor for destructive influences or spirits. Scripture assures us, "God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it" (1 Corinthians 10:13 WEB).
Let us pray for freedom from these influences:
"Lord Jesus, we come against any negative effects or spirits of 'spider' in our lives and families. As it is written, 'Behold, I have given you authority to tread on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy, and nothing will in any way hurt you' (Luke 10:19 WEB). We command these spirits to flee in Jesus' name. Set us free, Lord, and fill us with Your Holy Spirit. Protect our families and bring us peace. This we pray in Your mighty name, Jesus. Amen."
We encourage you to continue praying and trusting in the Lord. Remember, "For God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life" (John 3:16 WEB). Keep believing in Jesus Christ, for it is by His name we are saved.