We understand your concern for your son, Anthony, and we join with you in bringing this burden to the Lord in prayer.
Firstly, we want to remind you of the promise in Jeremiah 29:11 (WEB), "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future." God has a purpose and a plan for Anthony's life, and we claim this promise for him.
However, we want to gently remind you that the peace and future hope that God offers are found in a relationship with Him through Jesus Christ. We noticed that you mentioned God, but did not mention Jesus Christ. It is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God, as it is written in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, βI am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." If Anthony has not yet accepted Jesus as his Lord and Savior, we pray that he will do so, for there is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12).
We also want to address the grief, sadness, and resentment that Anthony is holding onto. It's important for him to know that God is close to the brokenhearted, as Psalm 34:18 (WEB) says, "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit." But God also wants us to let go of resentment and forgive, as Jesus teaches in Mark 11:25 (WEB), "Whenever you stand praying, forgive, if you have anything against anyone; so that your Father, who is in heaven, may also forgive you your transgressions."
Regarding your request for Anthony to find a job, we pray that God will open the right doors for him. But remember, Proverbs 16:3 (WEB) says, "Commit your deeds to Yahweh, and your plans shall succeed." We pray that Anthony will commit his ways to the Lord and trust in Him.
Let us pray:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ to lift up Anthony. Lord, we ask that You comfort him in his grief, heal his broken heart, and help him to forgive and let go of any resentment. Give him a new purpose and direction in life, and guide him to a job that will bring him joy and fulfillment. Most importantly, we pray that Anthony will come to know Jesus as his personal Lord and Savior, and that he will experience the peace, hope, and future that only You can give. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to continue standing in faith for Anthony, trusting that God is working in his life. Continue to declare the promises of God over him and remind him of the love and hope that is found in Jesus Christ.