Anonymous
Beloved of All
I pray my ex will soften their heart and communicate with me how they truly feel. Everything was going very well between us, then after a few confusing text messages they requested time and space. We never spoke on the phone, then they suddenly ended everything with very little sense. It felt like there was a miscommunication and they didn’t want to talk in person. And maybe their sister or friends were speaking in their ear. As they may not have supported our relationship in ship because we are two women, and they are very traditional. Almost like they were sacrificing our relationship in a peculiar way. It felt unclear, and unreal. It was shocking and abrupt and didn’t make sense at all. When I told them I was afraid we wouldn’t speak again, they told me there is no reason to feel that way. That we will talk again. It’s been some months now, and I’m patient. I believe wholeheartedly that they needed time and space. They said they felt pressured—as they were working full time, in the military, taking care of family out of state a couple months at a time, and going to school. We also live about an hour apart. Prior to this sudden decision, they just asked to meet my parents and we spent a wonderful vacation with them. It felt dreamy and romantic, we came back and bought a bed together. They were buying tickets to events and planning a lot of future dates with me, literally even that same day. Some kind of miscommunication happened in our text message. I think it was read as doubting our relationship but wasn’t intended that way. I’m not the best at texting. I know God hears our prayers, and I believe this misunderstanding will come to pass. I pray we are able to communicate, forgive, restart, reconcile, and build a healthy line of communication. That our relationship will be restored and blessed. That whatever was blocking us from understanding one another is lifted. And we are able to live happily. That family and friends who may have intervened will soften their hearts in support. Our love is undoubtedly strong. We will make it through this. I pray our next conversation is filled with wisdom and discernment, kindness and strength, love and light, and grace. We both hear each other with understanding and compassion and we get a chance to start fresh.