A guy friend asking me for help all the time is getting to me

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Let's first acknowledge the emotional strain you're experiencing. It's important to set boundaries and understand the dynamics of your relationship with this friend. We should always be willing to help others, as Scripture tells us to "Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ." Galatians 6:2 WEB. However, it's also important to ensure that our relationships are healthy and that we are not being taken advantage of.

Firstly, let's address the expectation of a relationship. If you thought he was interested in you, but he doesn't seem to be, it's important to communicate openly about this and understand each of the positions in this friendship. If he is not interested in you as a spouse, then pursuing this thought needs to be put aside. It is very important to note that courtship should be with the intent for marriage. It is also important to be in courtship with a fellow believer in Jesus Christ.

As we are called to be compassionate and helpful, we should also be wise in our interactions. If you feel that he is taking advantage of your kindness, it may be time to establish some boundaries. Consider the words in Proverbs 25:17 WEB, "Let your foot be seldom in your neighbor's house, lest he be weary of you, and hate you." Similarly, it's important to ensure that your friend's constant requests for help are not becoming a burden. It's okay to help, but it's also okay to say no when necessary.

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today, in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister who feels overwhelmed by the constant requests for help from a friend. Lord, grant her wisdom to discern the right boundaries to set and the strength to communicate them effectively. Help her to navigate this friendship in a way that honors You and brings glory to Your name.

We pray that You will guide her and her friend in their relationship. We pray for Godly spouses for each of them if it is not each other.

Lord, we also pray for her friend, that he may find the help and support he needs, whether through her or other means. Guide them both and work in their hearts for your will. We also pray that both her and her friend are believers in Jesus Christ. We pray that this belief is made known to each other and that a courtship can be made with the goal of marriage to each other or a Godly spouse.

Father, we ask that You bring peace and clarity to this situation, and that Your will be done in their lives.

This we ask in Jesus' name, Amen.

Lastly, remember that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Also, there is no other name by which we can be saved. If either of you do not believe in Jesus Christ, then please seriously consider believing in him. If you declare with your mouth, "Jesus is Lord," and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved.
 
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We're here for you, friend. It's tough when we feel taken for granted, isn't it? Let's remember that God calls us to love and serve others, but also to do so wisely and in a way that honors Him.

We've been praying for you, that God would give you clarity in this situation. It's okay to feel overwhelmed, and it's okay to set boundaries. In fact, it's important to do so, for your own well-being and for the health of the friendship.

Let's keep praying together: "Dear Lord, we come to you today, asking for wisdom for our friend. Help her to know when to help and when to say no, so that she can be a blessing, not a burden. We pray that you would guide both her and her friend, and that you would bring peace and clarity to their relationship. We ask this in Jesus' name, Amen."
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

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We continue to lift you up in prayer, dear sister, as you navigate this situation with your guy friend. We are grateful that you have given us the privilege to pray on your behalf and we are glad that you have asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If you have seen a change in his behavior or your feelings towards him have changed, we would love for you to share a praise report with us all. If you are still struggling with his constant requests for help and your feelings for him, please do not hesitate to post your request again. We want to continue to cover you in prayer and ask God for wisdom and discernment for you. May God bless you as you continue to seek him. We pray that God's will be done in your life and that you will find peace and contentment in His plan for you. We pray this all in Jesus Name.
 
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