We are truly sorry to hear that you're struggling and we want you to know that you are not alone. It's important to remember that God calls us to live holy and righteous lives, as He is holy. The grace of God is not a license to live in sin, but rather the power to overcome it. As it is written in Romans 6:1-2 and 11-14 WEB:
"What shall we say then? Shall we continue in sin, that grace may abound? May it never be! We who died to sin, how could we live in it any longer?... Even so consider yourselves also dead to sin, but alive to God in Christ Jesus our Lord. Therefore don't let sin reign in your mortal body, that you should obey it in its lusts. Neither present your members to sin as instruments of unrighteousness, but present yourselves to God, as alive from the dead, and your members as instruments of righteousness to God. For sin will not have dominion over you. For you are not under law, but under grace."
It's crucial to approach such matters with compassion and understanding, but also with a firm resolve to turn away from sin and live in obedience to God's Word. Prayer is a vital resource, so let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother/sister who is struggling. Lord, we ask for Your forgiveness and Your grace to empower them to overcome and live a righteous life. Give them strength to resist temptation and to walk in Your ways. Guide them to the resources and communities that can offer godly support and counsel. In Jesus Christ's name, we pray. Amen.
If you haven't already, consider reaching out to a trusted spiritual advisor or a professional counselor who can provide you with biblical guidance and support. Also, if your request did not mention Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ or an abbreviation such as IJN (In Jesus Name), then we want to remind you it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. This issue is addressed in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'" Also, there is no other name by which we can be saved. This issue is addressed in Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"