We understand your concern for your friend's marriage and your personal struggles with grief and rage. Let us first align our hearts with God's Word. The Bible teaches us that a good marriage is indeed a union between a man and a woman who are committed to each other and to God (Mark 10:6-9, WEB). It is not merely about two people knowing themselves, but also about them knowing God and His principles for a godly marriage.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, seeking Your grace and mercy. We lift up our friend, who is young and in need of Your protection in her marriage. Grant her the strength to navigate through any challenges, even those she may not yet know she has. Help her to fight her battles with Your power and guidance. Lord, we also pray for ourselves, asking for forgiveness for any beliefs tainted by grief and rage. Help us to be accepting, supportive, and unrestrictive towards our friend, just as You have loved and accepted us (Romans 15:7, WEB). Unfreeze our hearts, Lord, and fill them with Your love and compassion. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Remember, God's love and power are far greater than any rage or obsession. Trust in Him, and He will renew your heart and mind (Romans 12:2, WEB). It is crucial to acknowledge that it is only through Jesus Christ that we can approach God (John 14:6, WEB).
Lastly, we encourage you not to be bound by shame or fear. God is greater than these feelings, and He desires to set you free (2 Timothy 1:7, WEB). Stand firm in the faith and be courageous, knowing that God is with you and your friend, guiding both of you through life's challenges.