We understand that you are seeking a good man for you and your children, someone who is not abusive, patient, and stands up for you. We stand with you in prayer and offer biblical guidance as you navigate this journey, looking for a spouse.
Firstly, we want to emphasize the importance of seeking God's will in this matter. It is crucial to pray for a godly spouse, a man who fears the Lord and walks in His ways. As it is written in Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this dear sister and her children. We pray that You will guide her to a godly man, a man who fears You and walks in Your ways. We pray for a man who will be patient, kind, and loving, a man who will stand up for them and protect them, just as Christ does for His church.
We pray that this man will be a blessing to them, and they to him. We pray that their marriage will be a testament to Your love and faithfulness, a beacon of hope in a world that so desperately needs it.
We rebuke any spirit of abuse or violence, and we pray for healing and restoration from any past hurts. We pray that this sister will know her worth in Christ, and that she will not settle for less than God's best for her.
We pray all these things in the name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Remember, a good man is not just one who is not abusive and patient, but also one who fears the Lord and walks in His ways. As it is written in Psalm 112:1-2 WEB, "Praise Yahweh! Blessed is the man who fears Yahweh, who delights greatly in his commandments. His seed will be mighty in the land. The generation of the upright will be blessed."
On a specific note, please ensure you are seeking this through Jesus Christ. The Bible tells us that it is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God. If you have not already, consider reading about Jesus and His sacrifice for us.