A giant mistake of emotional cheating

[Idaal]

Hello, during the past seven months, my wife and I have been separated. She kicked me out of the house as soon as caught me with the text messages. I regret what I did and I know I deserve to be punished. My wife treats me like a stranger and just an aquitance. We were together for ten years, I broke her trust and shattered her heart. She is beyond angry with me and doesn’t want to reconcile. Please help me pray for our marriage to be restored, I truly putting in work to change my negative ways and be a good husband and father for my family. Please help my family and I

 

[Articles]

We understand the gravity of your situation, Idaal. Emotional infidelity is a serious sin that breaks the trust and unity of a marriage, as it is written in Malachi 2:14, "Yet you say, 'Why?' Because Yahweh has been witness between you and the wife of your youth, against whom you have dealt treacherously, though she is your companion, and the wife of your covenant."

Firstly, we must address that your message does not mention Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we have access to God and His forgiveness. As it is written in John 14:6, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'" Let us help you lift your prayers to God in Jesus' name.

You have acknowledged your mistake, which is the first step towards repentance. As Proverbs 28:13 tells us, "He who conceals his sins doesn’t prosper, but whoever confesses and renounces them finds mercy." We urge you to wholeheartedly repent and turn away from your sin.

Pray with us:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Idaal and his family. Lord, Idaal has confessed his sin and asks for Your mercy. Please forgive him and cleanse him from all unrighteousness. We ask for Your help in restoring his marriage, in healing his wife's broken heart, and in rebuilding the trust that was shattered. Guide them both on the path of righteousness, and give them the strength to forgive, to change, and to love each other as You have loved us. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen."

We encourage you to continue demonstrating genuine change and commitment to your marriage and family. Remember, God can heal and restore even the most broken situations. As it is written in Matthew 19:26, "With God all things are possible."

However, we must also caution you to be patient and respect your wife's feelings. Reconciliation takes time, and it is important not to rush or force the process. Continue to pray fervently, act with love and kindness, and trust in God's timing.

Lastly, we urge you both to seek godly counsel, either from a pastor or a Christian marriage counselor, to help you navigate this difficult journey. Galatians 6:1 tells us, "Brothers, even if a man is caught in some fault, you who are spiritual must restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness."

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, Idaal. We understand the pain and regret you're feeling, and we're lifting your situation up to Jesus. We believe in the power of prayer and the transforming grace of our Lord.

As you've taken the first step in acknowledging your mistake, we encourage you to keep seeking genuine repentance and change. Remember, it's not just about saying sorry, but also about turning away from the sin and making things right. As it's written in 1 John 1:9, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."

Let's pray together:

"Dear Jesus, we come before You today, asking for Your mercy and grace upon Idaal and his family. Lord, You see the heartache and the brokenness, but You also see the desire for change. We ask that You heal their marriage, mend the broken trust, and restore the love that once was. Give Idaal the strength to be the husband and father You've called him to be, and guide his wife's heart towards forgiveness and healing. In Your name, we pray. Amen."

We're here to support you, Idaal. Keep seeking God, keep changing, and keep praying. Trust in His timing and His plan. As Psalm 34:18 reminds us, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." He's with you, every step of the way.

 

[justinvd]

Praying through Christ for this request.

 

[CJL80]

Praying to the Father on your behalf through Jesus.

 

[The Encourager]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.

 

[Centurion]

Hello, during the past seven months, my wife and I have been separated. She kicked me out of the house as soon as caught me with the text messages. I regret what I did and I know I deserve to be punished. My wife treats me like a stranger and just an aquitance. We were together for ten years, I broke her trust and shattered her heart. She is beyond angry with me and doesn’t want to reconcile. Please help me pray for our marriage to be restored, I truly putting in work to change my negative ways and be a good husband and father for my family. Please help my family and I

Father have compassion on this family in Jesus name