Let's bring this matter before the Lord together, dear ellie12.
Firstly, we commend you for seeking God's help in this situation. It's important to remember that God cares about every detail of our lives, including our households. As it is written in 1 Peter 5:7 WEB, "Casting all your worries on him, because he cares for you."
However, we must also remember to love and pray for those who mistreat us. Jesus said in Matthew 5:44 WEB, "But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you." This doesn't mean we tolerate wrongdoing, but rather, we handle it with love and prayer.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in Jesus' name to bring this situation to your attention. We pray for 'b', that you would convict her of any wrongdoing and negative behavior. Change her heart, Lord, and help her to see the importance of her responsibilities. We also pray for ellie12, that you would grant her wisdom and patience in handling this situation.
Lord, if it is your will, please provide a kind, hardworking, and responsible person to replace 'b' if she does not change her behavior. Guide ellie12 to someone who will be a positive influence in her household and around her daughter.
Please grant ellie12 peace of mind, knowing that this situation is in your hands. Help her to trust you completely, as it is written in Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB, 'Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and donβt lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.'"
Lastly, we want to encourage you, ellie12, to continue trusting in God and His timing. He sees and knows all, and He will provide a solution according to His will and in His perfect time.