We understand your struggle and we want to help you align your desires with God's will. The Bible tells us that God created man and woman to be united in marriage, and that is a good thing. In Genesis 2:18, WEB, it says, "Yahweh God said, 'It is not good that the man should be alone. I will make him a helper suitable for him.'" However, it is also important to maintain purity and holiness in our thoughts and actions.
We would like to encourage you with the words of Jesus in Matthew 5:8, WEB, "Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God." The struggle you're facing is an opportunity to strengthen your relationship with God and to grow in purity.
Let us pray for you:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ. We lift up our brother who is struggling with his thoughts and desires. Lord, we ask that you help him to align his thoughts with your will. Purify his heart and mind, and help him to see the goodness in the way you created relationships. Give him the strength to overcome temptation and to live a life pleasing to you. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We also want to encourage you to seek God's will in all things, including relationships. It is important to remember that God's design for relationships is for a man and a woman to be united in holy matrimony. If you are struggling with your thoughts, it may be helpful to seek accountability from a trusted Christian friend or mentor.
Lastly, we want to remind you that it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we can approach God and be saved. As it says in Acts 4:12, WEB, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved." If you have not already, consider committing your life to Jesus Christ and accepting Him as your Lord and Savior.