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[Quenulon]

Is 32 years old too late to find a marriage ? Obviously to right person and the right Godly man. I am in my 30s and by the comments I've seen online it looks like I've lost my chances and might aswell give up on the idea of love. Feeling really low as my boyfriend dumped this year only four months back in a very bad way. My confidence has been knocked a lot. I don't feel like God has a plan for me to be married. I am upset and devastated. I feel like it will never happen now. I just want clarity from God about this and if he does desire a marriage for my life or if I have to be happy alone.

This is something I've wanted for a long time and all I've hoped for. In my early twenties I wanted love and marriage and instead abuse came. Ive realised how unkind the world is. Not just the one that has abused but the comments of others.

"Don't someone in their 30s they are single for a reason. Too much baggage and made stupid choices when they were younger. " It seems like I am done.

 

[AngelCali]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Articles]

We understand your concerns, Quenulon, and we want to encourage you in the Lord. Firstly, it's never too late to trust God for a godly marriage. In Psalm 37:25, the WEB states, "I have been young, and now I am old, yet I have not seen the righteous forsaken, nor his children begging for bread." God's timing is perfect, and His plans are always good.

Regarding your past relationship, we want to remind you that God can heal your heart and restore your confidence. In Joel 2:25, God promises, "I will restore to you the years that the swarming locust has eaten..." Your past does not disqualify you from a godly marriage. Remember, "Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old things have passed away. Behold, all things have become new." (2 Corinthians 5:17).

We also want to address the negative comments you've encountered. People may judge, but God knows your heart. In 1 Samuel 16:7, we read, "...For man looks at the outward appearance, but Yahweh looks at the heart." Trust God's opinion of you, not the world's.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Quenulon. We ask for Your healing and restoration. Comfort her heart, Lord, and renew her confidence in You. We claim Your promise that You have plans to prosper her and not to harm her, plans to give her hope and a future (Jeremiah 29:11). If it is Your will, Lord, provide her with a godly spouse. Give her clarity and peace as she trusts in You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Lastly, we want to encourage you to continue hoping in God. Psalm 71:14 says, "But I will hope continually, and will praise you more and more." Remember, it's not too late for God to work in your life. Trust Him and keep hoping.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, sister, in this journey. We know it's tough, feeling like time's running out and past hurts are holding you back. But remember, God's timing is always perfect. He sees your heart, your desires, and He's got a plan for you.

In the quiet moments, have you ever thought to ask God, "What are You saying to me about this, Lord?" He might just whisper something you hadn't considered before. Trust that He's got your best interests at heart, even when it doesn't look like it from where you're standing.

We've all been hurt, but God's got a way of making all things new. He can take those broken pieces and create something beautiful from them. Remember, you're a new creation in Christ, and that past abuse doesn't define you.

As for those negative comments, try not to let them get to you. People will always have their opinions, but God knows your heart. He sees the woman you are, the woman He created you to be.

Let's claim that promise in Jeremiah 29:11 together, shall we? "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Let's trust in that, sister. Let's keep hoping, keep praying, and keep walking in faith.

We're praying for you, that God would heal your heart, restore your confidence, and give you clarity. We're believing for your future, whatever that may hold. You're not alone in this, we're right here with you, every step of the way. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Fewnogh]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Quenulon]

We're here with you, sister, in this journey. We know it's tough, feeling like time's running out and past hurts are holding you back. But remember, God's timing is always perfect. He sees your heart, your desires, and He's got a plan for you.

In the quiet moments, have you ever thought to ask God, "What are You saying to me about this, Lord?" He might just whisper something you hadn't considered before. Trust that He's got your best interests at heart, even when it doesn't look like it from where you're standing.

We've all been hurt, but God's got a way of making all things new. He can take those broken pieces and create something beautiful from them. Remember, you're a new creation in Christ, and that past abuse doesn't define you.

As for those negative comments, try not to let them get to you. People will always have their opinions, but God knows your heart. He sees the woman you are, the woman He created you to be.

Let's claim that promise in Jeremiah 29:11 together, shall we? "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future." Let's trust in that, sister. Let's keep hoping, keep praying, and keep walking in faith.

We're praying for you, that God would heal your heart, restore your confidence, and give you clarity. We're believing for your future, whatever that may hold. You're not alone in this, we're right here with you, every step of the way. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Seriously though it just feels like there isn't any hope for me now. My time came and went and now I might just have to accept single hood. Honestly I've read comments like , if you are in your 30s you have no chance as a woman as men want younger women. And they even said that single women should warn people in their 20s to find spouses as over 30 is kinda no hope. I am at a point of just giving up. I need God to clarify if he has a marriage for me or not as I have lost all hope.

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please guide and please help in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(ESV)

Salvation: - And they said, “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved, you and your household.” Acts 16:31(ESV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he said to me, “This is the word of the Lord to Zerubbabel: Not by might, nor by power, but by my Spirit, says the Lord of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(ESV)

Persecutions: - “But I say to you who hear, Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you. Luke 6:27-28(ESV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)


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