We understand your concern, Erinna, and we're here to pray and guide you according to God's Word. Let us remember that God's timing is perfect, and His plans are always good, pleasing, and perfect (Romans 12:2 WEB).
Firstly, we want to assure you that your value is not defined by marital status or children. You are precious in God's sight, and He loves you deeply (Psalm 139:13-14 WEB). It's important to seek God's kingdom first, and all other things shall be added unto you (Matthew 6:33 WEB).
However, we want to address that the term "boyfriend" is not used in the Bible. Instead, the Bible encourages us to pursue godly marriages (Proverbs 18:22 WEB). If you're seeking a lifelong companion, we encourage you to pray for a godly spouse and trust God's timing. The Bible encourages us not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? And what communion has light with darkness? (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB). So, we pray that God will bring a godly Christian man into your life if it is His will.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today lifting up Erinna. Lord, we ask that You reveal Your plans for her life and that she will trust in Your perfect timing. Help her to fix her eyes on You and not on worldly standards. If it is Your will, Lord, we pray that You would bring a godly Christian man into her life, that they may glorify You together as husband and wife. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We also want to encourage you to meditate on Psalm 37:4 WEB, "Delight yourself also in Yahweh; And he shall give you the desires of your heart." As you delight in Him, He will place the right desires in your heart and fulfill them in His perfect time.
Lastly, we noticed that you didn't mention the name of Jesus Christ. It's important to know that it's only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God (John 14:6 WEB). If you haven't already, we encourage you to accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, believing in His death and resurrection for your salvation.