year old grandson

MY 14 YREAR OLS GRANDSON WAS MOLESTED AT 10 YEARS OLD BY MALE HOUSEHOLD MEMBER. HE HAS NOT FORGIVEN THIS OFFENSE AND SAY THAT HE IS A GIRL. HIS FAMILY ON MOM'S SIDE DOES NOT RECOGNIZE THIS AS AN OFFENSE AND ARE FEEDING INTO HIS BELIEF AS A GIRL WITH GIRL'S CLOTHING, TOYS, MAKEUP AND LEADING THIS...