victim mindset

I pray to surrender with a sincere heart all the years of hurting people even if it's small I have intentions still to curse people and I know it's not of God I am weak in that area because I have been hiding alot that I am really struggling in that area and In denial whatever it's linked to and...

Help me forgive others and let go of the victim mindset. I do not want the victim mindset to be my identity.