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FATHER YOU KNOW WHAT PROBLEMS I HAVE WITH A PERSON,WHO IS AN ELDER IN THE CHURCH ,THEY ARE TOO JUDGEMENTAL AND NOT VERY OPEN TO HEAR ABOUT MY STRUGLES,BUT VERY QUICK TO JUDGE ME EVEN BEFORE I OPEN MY MOUTH.I SUSPECT THEY ARE MANY OTHERS IN THE CHURCH WHO ARE LIKE THAT.I AM NOT SURE IF THE FRUITS...