sex feeling

I always have sex feeling and I don't like it to the extend I have sex with a girl last week and it was my first time so I want God to help me change me from that and I also want God to make the girl to change too I want to live a good life like Christ

My name is Zodwa .Ineed a pray Im 43 years since the age of 29 I lost my libido or sex feeling I am married woman with three kids I have tried every thing.I also need break through of my family thankyou