hardest way

Something very frustrating, and happening all the time.Every time I plan to do something,just before the time something or if I dodge that another thing,"pops up"as an obstacle to get in my way.I either have to do the planned thing in the hardest way, with obstacles, or get thwarted...

There's alot of drudgery in my life,seems everything I have to struggle for, and wind up having to do it the hardest way possible.Tired of that.