fearful avoidant

I've been trying to get hold of my ex to talk to him and reconcile. We are both Christians, by the way. I have not succeeded in meeting him, he hasn't been home and he hasn't replied to my message. He is a fearful avoidant, and does a lot of selfsabotage. The breakup came out of the blue for me...

This person is a fearful avoidant and has left my life. She does not have the ability to self reflect or take accountability for hurting others because of childhood trauma. I miss her and love her as my friend of forty years. She has no true friends, just aqaintances with shallow emotional...